"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 chicks, 1 show = problem (need advice ASAP)

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Guys - I played the odds and invited two women to the same show, figuring one would flake since it's last minute. Nope. Both are coming!! Now what??

P.S. Yeah, I should not have given out details, but already did. Now I need to move one to another night. How to do it smoothly?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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P.P.S. I feel like Jack Tripper on Three's Company
 
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What type of show is it?

Are you attending the show? or Are will you be just part of the audience.
 
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You could say you're not feeling well to one of them, and just go out with the other one ... but that could backfire. You could also be honest and say "oh I wasn't sure if you were coming or not, so I asked this other person and she decided immediately to come. Next time you should be more decisive or you'll lose other opportunities like that with me ;)"

What kind of show is this anyway? Theater piece? Music show? If there's no seats involved and the women were supposed to pay for their entry anyway, just bring both along. Ask a friend of yours to wing you on this, and he'll take care of one of those women. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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