"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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2 chicks, 1 show = problem (need advice ASAP)

thedeparted

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Guys - I played the odds and invited two women to the same show, figuring one would flake since it's last minute. Nope. Both are coming!! Now what??

P.S. Yeah, I should not have given out details, but already did. Now I need to move one to another night. How to do it smoothly?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thedeparted

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P.P.S. I feel like Jack Tripper on Three's Company
 

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What type of show is it?

Are you attending the show? or Are will you be just part of the audience.
 

AlexTheGreat

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You could say you're not feeling well to one of them, and just go out with the other one ... but that could backfire. You could also be honest and say "oh I wasn't sure if you were coming or not, so I asked this other person and she decided immediately to come. Next time you should be more decisive or you'll lose other opportunities like that with me ;)"

What kind of show is this anyway? Theater piece? Music show? If there's no seats involved and the women were supposed to pay for their entry anyway, just bring both along. Ask a friend of yours to wing you on this, and he'll take care of one of those women. :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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