"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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2 chicks, 1 show = problem (need advice ASAP)

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Guys - I played the odds and invited two women to the same show, figuring one would flake since it's last minute. Nope. Both are coming!! Now what??

P.S. Yeah, I should not have given out details, but already did. Now I need to move one to another night. How to do it smoothly?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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P.P.S. I feel like Jack Tripper on Three's Company
 
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What type of show is it?

Are you attending the show? or Are will you be just part of the audience.
 
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You could say you're not feeling well to one of them, and just go out with the other one ... but that could backfire. You could also be honest and say "oh I wasn't sure if you were coming or not, so I asked this other person and she decided immediately to come. Next time you should be more decisive or you'll lose other opportunities like that with me ;)"

What kind of show is this anyway? Theater piece? Music show? If there's no seats involved and the women were supposed to pay for their entry anyway, just bring both along. Ask a friend of yours to wing you on this, and he'll take care of one of those women. :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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