1st time I've ever walked away from a woman I probably still had a chance with..

[BackInTheGame78]

Have to say my previous self would never ever have even thought about doing this.

Went out with a woman last week, had a good time, she was into me, kissed me, touching, etc...told me she had a great time, texted me the next day, wanted to hang out again, etc...

Told me she was free this weekend, then I told her let's do Friday night, and she went completely ghost after that for a day and a half. This was after us not meeting for almost a month after we started texting sporadically...first she got "the flu" which she swears was the truth...whatever, left her alone for two weeks and re-initiated after that...planned to hang out but hadn't heard from her for 2 days, texted her to let me know what was up by 5pm the day before so I didn't make other plans, didn't hear from her, then she texts me 3 hours before we were supposed to meet up the next day asking "Are we still on for tonight?" Told her I made other plans already...

Didn't hear from her for a week and a half, then she texts me last riday around noon and asked if I wanted to hang out that night...didn;t have anything planned, so I was like cool...met up and had fun...now back to the same thing again...

Sent her a text saying "Well, seems like you must be really busy and have a lot going on. Don't want to trouble you anymore by piling more on your plate. Take care."

Then deleted her number. Can't believe I did this, she is really cute with a rocking body and big natural perfect tits, but I'm not going to put up with this crap just to get a potential lay...she obviously is low quality...not worth my time hen I have several other plates I am already spinning and banging...

If she re-initiates later I might just go for the bang and invite myself over to her house, if not oh well...

The old me would have just kept trying and trying instead of walking away with my dignity...small steps

 

[Infern0]

My view is that you didn't really need to next her but hey its your call.

Sending that message makes you look a little butthurt to be honest.

A girl like this it's fine to just have on the side as an occasional hook up, you simply mirror her level of investment and place little focus on her.

No need to be announcing that you are "moving on" because you are presupposing that she's not interested in you. It's not dignified. You got upset because she wasnt showing up how you wanted to. = you were more intetested in her than she in you = im willing to bet you WERE projecting that.

You will realise that later.

Just my opinion

 

[Obsidian]

It's hard for me to comment because you don't clearly say what "the same thing again" is. I don't believe that you need to be going out with the same woman early on multiple times in one week. And I don't believe that you need to be texting her daily.

 

[Infern0]

It's hard for me to comment because you don't clearly say what "the same thing again" is. I don't believe that you need to be going out with the same woman early on multiple times in one week. And I don't believe that you need to be texting her daily.

I know what he means.

He's still learning his craft and making a few mistakes but he is progressing which is important.

Op consider what you could have done better here, you made some mistakes

 

[Masculinity]

I think deleting her phone number based on the message she sent you was a little abrupt. Another possibility would have been to text her back admitting that you ARE busy, but that you want to hangout with her. I would have said "I AM pretty busy. But I still want to see you. When are you taking me out? " or something along those lines to show you have value.

Keep in mind that women are used to AFCs who orbit them, so when a guy like you keeps his hands to himself, the hamster starts to spin like crazy. I would give this girl another shot, unless of course, there are major personality flaws that we haven't discussed on this thread.

 

[Infern0]

I think deleting her phone number based on the message she sent you was a little abrupt. Another possibility would have been to text her back admitting that you ARE busy, but that you want to hangout with her. I would have said "I AM pretty busy. But I still want to see you. When are you taking me out? " or something along those lines to show you have value.

Keep in mind that women are used to AFCs who orbit them, so when a guy like you keeps his hands to himself, the hamster starts to spin like crazy. I would give this girl another shot, unless of course, there are major personality flaws that we haven't discussed on this thread.

Yup.

You don't always need to go no contact or hard "next"

You are only an orbiter if you are perusing / initiating.

I actually think this situation is salvageable in the near future because 9/10 she will text you in the near future .but you need to concentrate on having fun and fvcking and that's it.

 

[devilkingx2]

I think you made the right call, i don't see you getting anywhere with this girl she's wasting your time imo