"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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1st time experiances!

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For all of you out there that are NOT virgins, plz be so kind as to share with us your 1st time having sex;) (Eg: what was it like? what did she have to say? did u "come" too quicly? were u able to "pleasure" her? how did it feel? where did it happen? what leaded to it happening? do u regret it? how long did it last? did u have any difficulties? )

Looking forward to your replies ;)

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by aequitas
plz be so kind as to share with us your 1st time having sex;) (Eg: what was it like? what did she have to say? did u "come" too quicly? were u able to "pleasure" her? how did it feel? where did it happen? what leaded to it happening? do u regret it? how long did it last? did u have any difficulties? )

Looking forward to your replies ;)

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In a tent, on a mountain, in Tennessee.

It was uncomfortable.

She said "be quiet" (she was the sister of one of the guys I was at the 'Outdoor Therapeutic Program' with)

I came about 15 minutes into it.

I assume I pleasured her.

It felt great. Though it was about 15 degrees outside - at least one part of me was getting warm.

It happened in my sleeping bag, unzipped, in a tent, on the side of a mountain near Bucksnort, Tennessee (look it up... Three Springs Outdoor Therapeutic Program).

I was the 'DGL' (Designated Group Leader) of Nendawen (our group's name). Aaron was a NGM (Normal Group Member), and his sister happened to be very hot. She and her family visited rather frequently. Now, I'd been away from all female contact for nearly half a year at that point, but I still have a picture of her, and I'd still do her, so I'm very proud of myself. After all, after half a year... you'd do just about anything with a coochie.

Of course I don't regret it. Why should I? I was only 14.

It lasted about 15 minutes, as previously stated.

The only difficulties I recall were that my sleeping bag wasn't big enough. Nor was the military-style cot.
 
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Interesting post diablo... Thanx;)
 
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Older woman, thought I was experienced!

This looks like a fun thread... I'll jump in.

My first was with a considerably older, pretty hot woman I picked up at a punk rock show. She was pretty aggressive from the git-go.

On about our third date, we went back to my place, and had at it. She was very into it, got off quite well, and was pretty satisfied. I actually lasted quite long, as I'd read about sexual technique, and had practiced with the five-finger exercises to get pretty good control.

The one thing that was annoying is that she went straight to the bathroom when we were finished. I'd have preferred to cuddle for a bit. Talk about a reversal of expectations. But all my subsequent gals have been "cuddlers."

When I ran into her a few years later and told her she was my first one she expressed surprise and disappointment that I didn't tell her then, because she'd have loved to "train" me (chuckling..)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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For all of you out there that are NOT virgins, plz be so kind as to share with us your 1st time having sex;) (Eg:

what was it like? Fine.
what did she have to say? WOW.
did u "come" too quicly? I never came.
were u able to "pleasure" her? Yeah.
how did it feel? Good
where did it happen? In a tent, after drinking, beside my buddy and another girl
what leaded to it happening? She said "you won't be a virgin by the end of the night". Guess not.
do u regret it? Pfft...she was a nutcase...
how long did it last? Until I started hurting her, because I'm like big. lol
did u have any difficulties? Cumming, yeah. Because I didn't
 
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