"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1st time experiances!

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For all of you out there that are NOT virgins, plz be so kind as to share with us your 1st time having sex;) (Eg: what was it like? what did she have to say? did u "come" too quicly? were u able to "pleasure" her? how did it feel? where did it happen? what leaded to it happening? do u regret it? how long did it last? did u have any difficulties? )

Looking forward to your replies ;)

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by aequitas
plz be so kind as to share with us your 1st time having sex;) (Eg: what was it like? what did she have to say? did u "come" too quicly? were u able to "pleasure" her? how did it feel? where did it happen? what leaded to it happening? do u regret it? how long did it last? did u have any difficulties? )

Looking forward to your replies ;)

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In a tent, on a mountain, in Tennessee.

It was uncomfortable.

She said "be quiet" (she was the sister of one of the guys I was at the 'Outdoor Therapeutic Program' with)

I came about 15 minutes into it.

I assume I pleasured her.

It felt great. Though it was about 15 degrees outside - at least one part of me was getting warm.

It happened in my sleeping bag, unzipped, in a tent, on the side of a mountain near Bucksnort, Tennessee (look it up... Three Springs Outdoor Therapeutic Program).

I was the 'DGL' (Designated Group Leader) of Nendawen (our group's name). Aaron was a NGM (Normal Group Member), and his sister happened to be very hot. She and her family visited rather frequently. Now, I'd been away from all female contact for nearly half a year at that point, but I still have a picture of her, and I'd still do her, so I'm very proud of myself. After all, after half a year... you'd do just about anything with a coochie.

Of course I don't regret it. Why should I? I was only 14.

It lasted about 15 minutes, as previously stated.

The only difficulties I recall were that my sleeping bag wasn't big enough. Nor was the military-style cot.
 
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Interesting post diablo... Thanx;)
 
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Older woman, thought I was experienced!

This looks like a fun thread... I'll jump in.

My first was with a considerably older, pretty hot woman I picked up at a punk rock show. She was pretty aggressive from the git-go.

On about our third date, we went back to my place, and had at it. She was very into it, got off quite well, and was pretty satisfied. I actually lasted quite long, as I'd read about sexual technique, and had practiced with the five-finger exercises to get pretty good control.

The one thing that was annoying is that she went straight to the bathroom when we were finished. I'd have preferred to cuddle for a bit. Talk about a reversal of expectations. But all my subsequent gals have been "cuddlers."

When I ran into her a few years later and told her she was my first one she expressed surprise and disappointment that I didn't tell her then, because she'd have loved to "train" me (chuckling..)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For all of you out there that are NOT virgins, plz be so kind as to share with us your 1st time having sex;) (Eg:

what was it like? Fine.
what did she have to say? WOW.
did u "come" too quicly? I never came.
were u able to "pleasure" her? Yeah.
how did it feel? Good
where did it happen? In a tent, after drinking, beside my buddy and another girl
what leaded to it happening? She said "you won't be a virgin by the end of the night". Guess not.
do u regret it? Pfft...she was a nutcase...
how long did it last? Until I started hurting her, because I'm like big. lol
did u have any difficulties? Cumming, yeah. Because I didn't
 
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