"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So, i made another topic recently about a plate i was seeing. After letting her dubious actions speak instead of her words i have deleted her messages, texts and phone #. Moving on i have some dates lined up this weekend however a new prospect has rose that i would like some DJ guidance on.

Long story short, i work corporate for a retailer. During the holiday i saw a greeter that was SMOKING HB9.5. I chickened out since it was technically picking at the company fruit and no game.

However, she is back and since the holidays are over less people talking to her.

I know this should be natural but requires a delicate play.

Facts:

- I dont see her everyday so it "shouldnt" effect work if i bomb.
- she works with something i ordered for the company (possible in)
- she does not know i work for the company

My approach is looking like this:
I walk up, feign a question about a product. As she uses the tablet drop the line about me purchasing it. Ask about her thoughts about how it works for her so i can bring it to my boss ( lol no). Drop the line, "i would like to chat more but i gtg let me get your number" or something.

Yes, i am aware nothing should be planned but:
A: im not worried about failing but playing off the job card i want to know if anyone here had experience with this type.
B: adjustments to approach?

I almost went in half-c@#$%ed today but got blocked by coworkers.

Thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Update:

Saw her again and decided to go for it. I think I learning to read signals lol.

Went up to her to ask about a product. She avoided all eye contact and franklly was avoiding even looking at me. Annoying voice and outside of a decnt body, i lost interest based on her b@#$% attitude. I played on the charm, smiling/ eye contact... nada.

I know im not the best looking guy but god damn at least do your job and try to act interested in thw customer.

In any case, looking forward to a date with a latin girl this week. Got about 5 other plates spinning. She is about 6 years older... should be interesting.

Just curious. My friend who is hispanic tells me that hispanic women are very "expressive" compared to white women, is this true? Should i try a lot of kino?

Another side note: i did the NC and spaced out my texts. Holy crap does it work. I was very vague and SHE replied 4 times setring up details.

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