Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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1st step as a man (blog attempt of growing a pair)

Griever114

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So, i made another topic recently about a plate i was seeing. After letting her dubious actions speak instead of her words i have deleted her messages, texts and phone #. Moving on i have some dates lined up this weekend however a new prospect has rose that i would like some DJ guidance on.

Long story short, i work corporate for a retailer. During the holiday i saw a greeter that was SMOKING HB9.5. I chickened out since it was technically picking at the company fruit and no game.

However, she is back and since the holidays are over less people talking to her.

I know this should be natural but requires a delicate play.

Facts:

- I dont see her everyday so it "shouldnt" effect work if i bomb.
- she works with something i ordered for the company (possible in)
- she does not know i work for the company

My approach is looking like this:
I walk up, feign a question about a product. As she uses the tablet drop the line about me purchasing it. Ask about her thoughts about how it works for her so i can bring it to my boss ( lol no). Drop the line, "i would like to chat more but i gtg let me get your number" or something.

Yes, i am aware nothing should be planned but:
A: im not worried about failing but playing off the job card i want to know if anyone here had experience with this type.
B: adjustments to approach?

I almost went in half-c@#$%ed today but got blocked by coworkers.

Thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Griever114

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Update:

Saw her again and decided to go for it. I think I learning to read signals lol.

Went up to her to ask about a product. She avoided all eye contact and franklly was avoiding even looking at me. Annoying voice and outside of a decnt body, i lost interest based on her b@#$% attitude. I played on the charm, smiling/ eye contact... nada.

I know im not the best looking guy but god damn at least do your job and try to act interested in thw customer.

In any case, looking forward to a date with a latin girl this week. Got about 5 other plates spinning. She is about 6 years older... should be interesting.

Just curious. My friend who is hispanic tells me that hispanic women are very "expressive" compared to white women, is this true? Should i try a lot of kino?

Another side note: i did the NC and spaced out my texts. Holy crap does it work. I was very vague and SHE replied 4 times setring up details.

:)
 
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