"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So, i made another topic recently about a plate i was seeing. After letting her dubious actions speak instead of her words i have deleted her messages, texts and phone #. Moving on i have some dates lined up this weekend however a new prospect has rose that i would like some DJ guidance on.

Long story short, i work corporate for a retailer. During the holiday i saw a greeter that was SMOKING HB9.5. I chickened out since it was technically picking at the company fruit and no game.

However, she is back and since the holidays are over less people talking to her.

I know this should be natural but requires a delicate play.

Facts:

- I dont see her everyday so it "shouldnt" effect work if i bomb.
- she works with something i ordered for the company (possible in)
- she does not know i work for the company

My approach is looking like this:
I walk up, feign a question about a product. As she uses the tablet drop the line about me purchasing it. Ask about her thoughts about how it works for her so i can bring it to my boss ( lol no). Drop the line, "i would like to chat more but i gtg let me get your number" or something.

Yes, i am aware nothing should be planned but:
A: im not worried about failing but playing off the job card i want to know if anyone here had experience with this type.
B: adjustments to approach?

I almost went in half-c@#$%ed today but got blocked by coworkers.

Thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Update:

Saw her again and decided to go for it. I think I learning to read signals lol.

Went up to her to ask about a product. She avoided all eye contact and franklly was avoiding even looking at me. Annoying voice and outside of a decnt body, i lost interest based on her b@#$% attitude. I played on the charm, smiling/ eye contact... nada.

I know im not the best looking guy but god damn at least do your job and try to act interested in thw customer.

In any case, looking forward to a date with a latin girl this week. Got about 5 other plates spinning. She is about 6 years older... should be interesting.

Just curious. My friend who is hispanic tells me that hispanic women are very "expressive" compared to white women, is this true? Should i try a lot of kino?

Another side note: i did the NC and spaced out my texts. Holy crap does it work. I was very vague and SHE replied 4 times setring up details.

:)
 
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