Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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1st number close

90'til infinity

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hey, i just had my first number close that went a little something like this. So im chillin with a friend, and we decide we wanna roll a blunt so we call a dude drive over and I see a guy and a girl HB8 walking on the sidewalk of the apartments, made eye contact driving by, to my surprise they are meating the same dude. As i'm parked they proceed to all walk over to my car introduce themselves and get in the back along with the dude. I roll the blunt, drive over to a nearbye park spark up. Now im a freshman in college and the girl is a sophmore in hs, I see her sending me IOI's as we pass the blunt just eying me, but not smiling, but more so smiling with her eyes. anyways as they decide to leave to another person's house, they give us a hug, and as i hug the girl I ask her for her number close to her ear. I chose to do this rather than upfront ask since there were three other guys, one who i assume was gay the guy with the girl. but the point is that was the first number close i actually ever attempted that succeeded. I still have'nt txtd her my number im thinking i'll do that in a couple days.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kill 2 bird's with one stone and make it your first Fvck close too man! Good job braa

EDIT: yeah the age gap is pretty off putting...stay in that college age zone
 

90'til infinity

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ye forsure, i went to a party tonight and took her there and most of the night she was sending me IOI's like she wanted to straight ****, touching my hand when i was close to her, but i realized in my blazed drunken state that i don't wanna **** a high school chick, so i di'dnt pay her much attention , little conversation here and there but nothing more. there were other girls that were more outgoing so to speak, that i was trying to figure out, i attempted and had some conversation but they were more attracted to a pimp at the party, pimpist guy ever ,dude brought a HB10 over and eventually told her to **** off because she questioned him, i mean yea im trying to get there. And i believe i'm off to a good start, once winter break is over i will approach every girl i make eye contact with.
 
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