"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hey, i just had my first number close that went a little something like this. So im chillin with a friend, and we decide we wanna roll a blunt so we call a dude drive over and I see a guy and a girl HB8 walking on the sidewalk of the apartments, made eye contact driving by, to my surprise they are meating the same dude. As i'm parked they proceed to all walk over to my car introduce themselves and get in the back along with the dude. I roll the blunt, drive over to a nearbye park spark up. Now im a freshman in college and the girl is a sophmore in hs, I see her sending me IOI's as we pass the blunt just eying me, but not smiling, but more so smiling with her eyes. anyways as they decide to leave to another person's house, they give us a hug, and as i hug the girl I ask her for her number close to her ear. I chose to do this rather than upfront ask since there were three other guys, one who i assume was gay the guy with the girl. but the point is that was the first number close i actually ever attempted that succeeded. I still have'nt txtd her my number im thinking i'll do that in a couple days.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kill 2 bird's with one stone and make it your first Fvck close too man! Good job braa

EDIT: yeah the age gap is pretty off putting...stay in that college age zone
 
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ye forsure, i went to a party tonight and took her there and most of the night she was sending me IOI's like she wanted to straight ****, touching my hand when i was close to her, but i realized in my blazed drunken state that i don't wanna **** a high school chick, so i di'dnt pay her much attention , little conversation here and there but nothing more. there were other girls that were more outgoing so to speak, that i was trying to figure out, i attempted and had some conversation but they were more attracted to a pimp at the party, pimpist guy ever ,dude brought a HB10 over and eventually told her to **** off because she questioned him, i mean yea im trying to get there. And i believe i'm off to a good start, once winter break is over i will approach every girl i make eye contact with.
 
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