"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1st experience tonight

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Well tonight I had my first sexual experience with a girl (just a friend) who is also a virgin, but always talks about sex. We were on the freeway, her and another girl mentioned something about them kissing eachother on a dare, so I dared them to kiss eachother, they said they would but only if I did something, I said ok.

They talked about it, and decided they wanted me to touch myself, just stick my hands in my pants and do whatever, I said ok, but later questioned them on it, I said what do u get out of this bet, and they said yea thats true, talked about it more, and decided that one of them would stroke me, I was like "hell yea" lol, no I made it seem like I was thinking about it, and then said "yea, ok i'll do it". Like they were winning, it was great.

So we get to my apt, and get to it in the car, but she had never done it before, and it wasnt that great, it felt better when I did it myself, it actually started to hurt, she kept going for like 20 min, i'm not complaining, but it wasnt what I expected. She was upset at herself that I didnt "finish". I hope it gets better than that, but I gotta say that I know I would have done some stupid afc thing and ruined it all, before coming to this site.

By the way, they never kissed, i'm gonna make sure they keep up their part of the bargain. They said they would save it for later.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by dementia
and she replied "Gargle raglerrr thatss okkggargle" LOL
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Just like a girl will have to tell me what she likes if I were to finger her, since I've never done it before. A girl that’s never touched a penis would have to be guided too. It’s stupid to just let her leave bruises on your d1ck. Tell her, "I like it when you touch me here. If feels better when you squeeze a little softer." Grab her hand or wrist and guide her through the motion you like and what tempo.
 
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jaybeezi,

Congratualations man! She was inexperienced and probably at a bad angle and didn't jerk you properly that is why your junk is sore.

Try this next time. Sit on a couch, and slump down a little. Get her to sit on top you just above your penis area with her back facing you. Then teach her how to jerk you off. While she is jerking you off you can play with her breasts.

Just a suggestion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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or next time tell her to do something that you CANT do yourself...that can work sometimes...congrats on the first experience...it only gets better
 
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