"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
1st ever trip to the gym
- Thread starter MidnightResistance
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
If it's anything like my gym, you'll have to make an appointment with the instructor for when you want the appraisal because sometimes they get too busy. Maybe you should ring them up first, or just pop in to the gym and make an appointment.Originally posted by MidnightResistance
I understand a tiny bit, but not much at all.
Getting instruction at the gym will be a huge help to me.
When is a good time and day to go to the gym so that it's quiet so I can get the help I need?
Just go to the gym learn how to do all the lifts and don't worry about all the combinations to start.
But do record your weights and reps, so few people do. Not sure how they ever know if they are progressing.
MidnightResistance
Senior Don Juan
One of my ex's brothers was HUGE when I met him. A couple of months later he was really thin. He had no idea what had happened. From reading this forum I can tell he started doing too many reps and not enough weight, so he burnt off all that mass.
I should get a day off work in the week sometime soon. I'll drop in then and see if I can book an appointment.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
tj
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this is the farthest thing from the truth. look through the picture index.. there are hundreds of people who know there sht(unlike here uhum heizen)..bodybuilding isn't rocket scienceOriginally posted by Heizen
No. BBing.com forums are full of ****, especially the teen section. The people who know what they are doing are far and few between, and many of them take steroids so their routines are useless to a natty lifter. Stay away from the forums. The main site is OK for info though.