Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TheOnE111

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An i pulled 2 #'s :yes: . One step at a time. Got a # from a cute red head an one from this cute asian chic. Gotta keep at it my goal is 5 #"s by the end of this weekend.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As mystery said in his book, Numbers are the equivlant to "wood" in the Boiler Room.

Ture success comes with

1) Tapping that ass
2) Kiss closing
3) Getting a date out of the equation..then and there


Not to say you failed... but alot of guys make the mistake that getting the number is what it's all about. It's all about getting layed. Getting the number is nothing but the tool to do that.

alot of guys get numbers for the sake of getting numbers and leave women baffeled in the process becuase we don't at times eve know what WE want.

You want to have sex (ovbiously) but you have a hot and ready women right there, who is just waiting on the right que to cut loose, to get her number and then call her 3 days later.. no thanks, she will just wait for you to leave and hook up with someone else who gets it.

what i am getting at is, the number close should be the last thing you go for, not the goal. When I meet a woman and I'm actually trying to close her, which isn't all the time.. I'm not always "on".. for various reaosns... I'm trying to Fvck that night. If It becomes apparent I can't fvck, for whatever the reason may be.. I'm trying to get her in a different place so to setup a date like atmosphere so that my prospects for fvcking in the future. If I have a shot in hell, this usually works 4/5 times.

If that does work, then I leave and get her number. I rarely follow up, because a woman, without a very valid excuse, that is attracted to you, will do something with you when she meets you. attraction isn't something she is considering or not. But there are times when she is attracted to you that you just don't have time for whatever the reason may be.
 

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Thnx bro, I kno the # isnt reall that big of a deal. I figured this out awhile ago. But im still a beginner so i hafta start some where right?
 

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it's not a small deal either. don't get it twised. it's better than sitting there and thinking about her, going home and jacking off. WAY better. the good part is you are out there trying.

just keep your real goals in mind next time.

there is no such thing as being a beginner, get that **** out of your head. you have been living since you were born. you were born with the instinct to fvck women, it just didn't come into you yesterday.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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