"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheOnE111

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An i pulled 2 #'s :yes: . One step at a time. Got a # from a cute red head an one from this cute asian chic. Gotta keep at it my goal is 5 #"s by the end of this weekend.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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As mystery said in his book, Numbers are the equivlant to "wood" in the Boiler Room.

Ture success comes with

1) Tapping that ass
2) Kiss closing
3) Getting a date out of the equation..then and there


Not to say you failed... but alot of guys make the mistake that getting the number is what it's all about. It's all about getting layed. Getting the number is nothing but the tool to do that.

alot of guys get numbers for the sake of getting numbers and leave women baffeled in the process becuase we don't at times eve know what WE want.

You want to have sex (ovbiously) but you have a hot and ready women right there, who is just waiting on the right que to cut loose, to get her number and then call her 3 days later.. no thanks, she will just wait for you to leave and hook up with someone else who gets it.

what i am getting at is, the number close should be the last thing you go for, not the goal. When I meet a woman and I'm actually trying to close her, which isn't all the time.. I'm not always "on".. for various reaosns... I'm trying to Fvck that night. If It becomes apparent I can't fvck, for whatever the reason may be.. I'm trying to get her in a different place so to setup a date like atmosphere so that my prospects for fvcking in the future. If I have a shot in hell, this usually works 4/5 times.

If that does work, then I leave and get her number. I rarely follow up, because a woman, without a very valid excuse, that is attracted to you, will do something with you when she meets you. attraction isn't something she is considering or not. But there are times when she is attracted to you that you just don't have time for whatever the reason may be.
 

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Thnx bro, I kno the # isnt reall that big of a deal. I figured this out awhile ago. But im still a beginner so i hafta start some where right?
 

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it's not a small deal either. don't get it twised. it's better than sitting there and thinking about her, going home and jacking off. WAY better. the good part is you are out there trying.

just keep your real goals in mind next time.

there is no such thing as being a beginner, get that **** out of your head. you have been living since you were born. you were born with the instinct to fvck women, it just didn't come into you yesterday.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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