1st Date time scales

[Murk]

I'm seeing a lot of conflicting opinions on how long you keep the first date.

Some people say you should always escalate a first date to sex each time, then pick up on 2nd date where you left off.

Others are in the "keep them wanting more" boat saying 1-2 hours, then call it a day/night.

I myself only meet after work or in the evening - sets a more romantic tone, easier to escalate to sex, and it's always at a bar or drinking place.

My date on Saturday was from about 9pm until 2am, put her in a cab and she went home I met a friend and carried on.

I usually go with the flow and aim to go back to there or bring them to mine, it doesn't always happen. I'm thinking to try the set time routine (couple hours) in hopes on 2nd date sex, my problem is me and my date always end up drunk and it turns into a long night. I know if looking for a LTR short and sweet is probably best, but that's quite boring to me.

What do you do or what is your routine/game plan?

 

[derby1]

you escalate to sex as soon as the scenario is comfortable to do so... If its on the first date...Brilliant,

A mans job is to Have a good time and have sex

As soon as you have passionate sex with a woman the polarities change and the morning after she should be chasing you, if she believes there is an LTR

its magical youll barely have to initiate anything ONCE youve put your dck in shes INVESTED

 

[Murk]

But do you make a time limit on the first date before you've had it or go with the flow? It sounds like you go with the flow.

 

[marmel75]

Go with the flow to a degree but there is no way in hell I'm getting drunk on a first date.

 

[derby1]

I'm getting drunk on a first date

this aswell forgot this ...........................