"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1st approach back in school, ****BLOCKED

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hey... i am at the same time pissed and laughing...

it is a sh*ty coincidence that my first approach back in school i get ****blocked by some idiot guy friend of hers... wut a motherf*cker..


how do u guys handle ****blockers?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well if he just jumped into the conversation I would say, "Hey, I am talking to her, can you interupt us later?"
 

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just matters like u said there friends so dont let it phase you pretty good chance he wont get anywere with her. i would just Try to isolate her in a place were her friend wouldnt ever go maby meet her after school and talk
 

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Re: Re: 1st approach back in school, ****BLOCKED

Originally posted by Zod
Well if he just jumped into the conversation I would say, "Hey, I am talking to her, can you interupt us later?"
Personally I dont agree with this. It is really rude and if it is her FRIEND hes not ****blocking you he just probably wanted to say whats up. I think if u say that she will just get pissed cuz ur rude to her friend, and leave u and start talking to him. If some chick said that to my boys, i would leave her and chat with my friends, than stick aroud with someone who just insulted my friend.

Can u tell us details of how u approached and what u said...im really interested

smooth
 

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well, this girl i remember last year who i only talked to a few times said wussup...

i turn my head and see this hot ass girl, so i'm like hey wussup... then i tell her she looks different (its a good line, but doesn't sound like one if used correctly)... then she replies, "really... oh.. so how did your summer go?" blah blah she kept talking .... and i kept nodding my head and smiling and asking questions here and there..

then right when i was about to ask for the digits this idiot comes in butts in and starts talking like he was in the conversation... i swear this foo came out of nowhere... then yea.. i just said i gotta go and i'll see her around
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What you could also do is when he butts in the convo. tell him to wait here a sec....grab her hand and lead her like 50 feet away....he wont follow u.....if he does hell look like a chump


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