"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1st approach back in school, ****BLOCKED

upcomingDJ

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hey... i am at the same time pissed and laughing...

it is a sh*ty coincidence that my first approach back in school i get ****blocked by some idiot guy friend of hers... wut a motherf*cker..


how do u guys handle ****blockers?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well if he just jumped into the conversation I would say, "Hey, I am talking to her, can you interupt us later?"
 

frisco

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just matters like u said there friends so dont let it phase you pretty good chance he wont get anywere with her. i would just Try to isolate her in a place were her friend wouldnt ever go maby meet her after school and talk
 

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Re: Re: 1st approach back in school, ****BLOCKED

Originally posted by Zod
Well if he just jumped into the conversation I would say, "Hey, I am talking to her, can you interupt us later?"
Personally I dont agree with this. It is really rude and if it is her FRIEND hes not ****blocking you he just probably wanted to say whats up. I think if u say that she will just get pissed cuz ur rude to her friend, and leave u and start talking to him. If some chick said that to my boys, i would leave her and chat with my friends, than stick aroud with someone who just insulted my friend.

Can u tell us details of how u approached and what u said...im really interested

smooth
 

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well, this girl i remember last year who i only talked to a few times said wussup...

i turn my head and see this hot ass girl, so i'm like hey wussup... then i tell her she looks different (its a good line, but doesn't sound like one if used correctly)... then she replies, "really... oh.. so how did your summer go?" blah blah she kept talking .... and i kept nodding my head and smiling and asking questions here and there..

then right when i was about to ask for the digits this idiot comes in butts in and starts talking like he was in the conversation... i swear this foo came out of nowhere... then yea.. i just said i gotta go and i'll see her around
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Smooth Player 056

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What you could also do is when he butts in the convo. tell him to wait here a sec....grab her hand and lead her like 50 feet away....he wont follow u.....if he does hell look like a chump


smooth
 
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