180° turn in interest level hot to cold

[JonnyD123]

Had a same night lay w/ this girl Super Bowl Sunday..tried to keep contact to a minimum since then. Felt like I played this flawlessly. Most recent text exchange:

Her: Done with work and I remember that we talked last night. I was only half asleep!
Me: Do you also remember the naughty dreams you were having about us last night too?

Her: Those were your dreams not mine
Me: Prove it

Her: So what'd you dream about last night?
Me: I don't wanna corrupt your innocent mind w/ impure thoughts

Her: Lmao! I dare you to tell me
Me: How bout you come here this wknd and we'll just make it a reality

That was on Thursday. Still no response. Bummer she was a solid lay too. Thoughts?

 

[nismo-4]

Your princess is in another castle. Actions speak louder than words.

Remember that women's interest changes more than her clothes. She wouldn't play these teasing games with Channing Tatum. Move on unless you want to be her new beta orbiter.

Case closed. Bummer.

 

[Yorkex]

Don't msg again.
She will hit you with , "lost phone" or hey stranger"

Let her set the date , if you push she will go into hiding again.
Same **** happened to me last month.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Yep, ball is definitely in her court. I think you played it well. Kept the flirting going and pushing for another lay is definitely the way to go.
Go ghost. Next time she's horny, she'll be in touch and then you repeat the tone of your earlier sexually charged exchange.

 

[Tictac]

Same days lays - easy come, easy go.

Is this your first rodeo?

 

[MillionBillionaire]

That was horrible to read bro.. you tried to sex text and failed miserably.. what time was this.. 3:00pm hahaha... many other factors.

DO NOT COMMIT I.L. SUICIDE BY ATTEMPTING TO SEXT!

That was your public service announcement

 

[TheException]

That was horrible to read bro.. you tried to sex text and failed miserably.. what time was this.. 3:00pm hahaha... many other factors.

DO NOT COMMIT I.L. SUICIDE BY ATTEMPTING TO SEXT!

That was your public service announcement

This^

I think it's actually a huge mistake to OVERTLY text sexual material. I'd much rather keep responses light and playful. Save this stuff for in person, if you are dead set on doing it at all.

 

[YAboi]

This^

I think it's actually a huge mistake to OVERTLY text sexual material. I'd much rather keep responses light and playful. Save this stuff for in person, if you are dead set on doing it at all.

Someone give this man a medal *Vladimir putin sticks hand out*

 

[LMFAO]

Texting can easily kill a relationship at the early stages. This is just another example. Modern women have the attention span of flies and with multiple guys texting them their emotions can easily swing the other way.

Sexting is fine after you banged her a few times otherwise you are risking it. Many times it's not worth it. You were too forward with her, a mistake I sometimes make as well. She's not sure about your text or not in the mood or doesn't like it -> she doesn't respond and considers bailing out. Best to keep such conversations on the phone or face to face.

Go NC 3-4 days and see if she initiates contact.

Remember they are just women, not matter made of gold. As much as women put men under the illusion they are busy they are as much likely to bath, takes sh!ts, scratch her arse and watches netflix as do anything else. There are millions of others like her, don't get hang up on one. Modern women in many ways have become like men and spin plates more than you'd think and are all too happy to have a one night stand as the girl here with little investment.

 

[pyros]

its funny to read over and over how guys decide it is a good idea to sex text a girl...lmao...

It COULD BE a good idea after you've banged her SEVERAL TIMES and you've built rapport... NOT BEFORE.

I would not even initiate it unless she does, cause more often than not it is counterproductive.


In your case you treated her like a slvt/sex object, and she did not like it.

 

[Skyline]

Where's Harry?

Only flirt over text/phone when she does because women have the option to literally put down their phone and leave- it's crazy I know.