"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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180° turn in interest level hot to cold

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Had a same night lay w/ this girl Super Bowl Sunday..tried to keep contact to a minimum since then. Felt like I played this flawlessly. Most recent text exchange:

Her: Done with work and I remember that we talked last night. I was only half asleep!
Me: Do you also remember the naughty dreams you were having about us last night too?

Her: Those were your dreams not mine
Me: Prove it

Her: So what'd you dream about last night?
Me: I don't wanna corrupt your innocent mind w/ impure thoughts

Her: Lmao! I dare you to tell me
Me: How bout you come here this wknd and we'll just make it a reality

That was on Thursday. Still no response. Bummer she was a solid lay too. Thoughts?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Your princess is in another castle. Actions speak louder than words.

Remember that women's interest changes more than her clothes. She wouldn't play these teasing games with Channing Tatum. Move on unless you want to be her new beta orbiter.

Case closed. Bummer.
 
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Don't msg again.
She will hit you with , "lost phone" or hey stranger"

Let her set the date , if you push she will go into hiding again.
Same **** happened to me last month.
 
Greasy Pig

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Yep, ball is definitely in her court. I think you played it well. Kept the flirting going and pushing for another lay is definitely the way to go.
Go ghost. Next time she's horny, she'll be in touch and then you repeat the tone of your earlier sexually charged exchange.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That was horrible to read bro.. you tried to sex text and failed miserably.. what time was this.. 3:00pm hahaha... many other factors.

DO NOT COMMIT I.L. SUICIDE BY ATTEMPTING TO SEXT!

That was your public service announcement
 
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MillionBillionaire said:
That was horrible to read bro.. you tried to sex text and failed miserably.. what time was this.. 3:00pm hahaha... many other factors.

DO NOT COMMIT I.L. SUICIDE BY ATTEMPTING TO SEXT!

That was your public service announcement
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I think it's actually a huge mistake to OVERTLY text sexual material. I'd much rather keep responses light and playful. Save this stuff for in person, if you are dead set on doing it at all.
 
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Texting can easily kill a relationship at the early stages. This is just another example. Modern women have the attention span of flies and with multiple guys texting them their emotions can easily swing the other way.

Sexting is fine after you banged her a few times otherwise you are risking it. Many times it's not worth it. You were too forward with her, a mistake I sometimes make as well. She's not sure about your text or not in the mood or doesn't like it -> she doesn't respond and considers bailing out. Best to keep such conversations on the phone or face to face.

Go NC 3-4 days and see if she initiates contact.

Remember they are just women, not matter made of gold. As much as women put men under the illusion they are busy they are as much likely to bath, takes sh!ts, scratch her arse and watches netflix as do anything else. There are millions of others like her, don't get hang up on one. Modern women in many ways have become like men and spin plates more than you'd think and are all too happy to have a one night stand as the girl here with little investment.
 
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its funny to read over and over how guys decide it is a good idea to sex text a girl...lmao...

It COULD BE a good idea after you've banged her SEVERAL TIMES and you've built rapport... NOT BEFORE.

I would not even initiate it unless she does, cause more often than not it is counterproductive.


In your case you treated her like a slvt/sex object, and she did not like it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Where's Harry?

Only flirt over text/phone when she does because women have the option to literally put down their phone and leave- it's crazy I know.
 
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