Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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18 year old chubby chick

razkay

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Okay, this is against all my morals but this girl messages me online and we get into a conversation and she willingly gives me her number.

this isn't what i envisioned spinning plates would be. she's cute in the face, but i just don't like chubby girls.

but should i just use her as practice and for sex? im 7 years older than her, she can't obviously think this would be permanent. i think she's just horny.

anyway, should i go for it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Biggie

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So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
 

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Biggie said:
So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
She went for me.

All the girls I go after are 22+.
 

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Biggie said:
So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
Total BS.
 

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Chubby = fat, thats a no.

18 yrs old = young and dumb. That could be a yes if shes hot. But considering she's not, I say no.

Bottomline I would feel disgusted after I cleaned up.

theres nothing wrong with a girl whos got T & A but if shes got a gut/fupa/gunt what have you...thats a negative right there son.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Biggie

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razkay said:
She went for me.

All the girls I go after are 22+.

Ah ok. Well if she just wants to get some and you just want to get some i say go for it. Just be safe.
 

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don't buy that age shaming bullshiit. Weaksauce on who ever threw that shiit out there. I wouldn't go that low, but then I'm a grown man, I rarely date women under 27. Younger than that is just good for a shag and that's it.

I usually advocate getting a starter girl, just to get your game rolling and to practice, but if your not attracted, leave it. Go after what you want. Good luck.
 

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Biggie said:
So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
do you mean it' gross that a 25 year old is going for a 18 year old or that it's gross that she's chubby? If it's the age thing than all I have to say is that's not at all gross, it's perfectly fine (though I couldn't see a relationship like that going anywhere). Now if your talking about the fact that she's chubby, well different people have different tastes. IMO a little chubby is ok (I'm talking average here, not fat) as long as she's cute.
 

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I say go for it, just for the experience screwing a chubby girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Biggie said:
So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
gtfo moralfag
 

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If I do go for this, it'll be my first chubby chick. I'm thinking she's fatter than chubby though. She has those myspace pic angles. lol
 

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Meet her at a place that's easy to bail from. If you want some action, proceed, if you don't bail.

Don't listen to any one here. Only 2 questions. Is she legal, and do you want to hit it?
 

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in the words of my buddies dad: "ugly girls are just practice"
 

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How chubby?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Fat Chicks are like mopeds. Everybody wants one, but you don't want your friends to see you riding it.
 

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razkay said:
Okay, this is against all my morals but this girl messages me online and we get into a conversation and she willingly gives me her number.

this isn't what i envisioned spinning plates would be. she's cute in the face, but i just don't like chubby girls.
If your going so 'low' as to consider phoning this fat chick, your not spinning plates. And your desperate. If you were spinning plates you'd have plenty of other attractive options. Ones you would want to bang.
 

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Leporello said:
How chubby?
I think she's on the verge of becoming a whale...so I'm not touching that. It was a fleeting thought.
 

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kraytkiller said:
If you were spinning plates you'd have plenty of other attractive options. Ones you would want to bang.
Hopefully I'll have several girls I can call, but right now I have zero. I'm working on this.
 
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