"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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18 year old chubby chick

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Okay, this is against all my morals but this girl messages me online and we get into a conversation and she willingly gives me her number.

this isn't what i envisioned spinning plates would be. she's cute in the face, but i just don't like chubby girls.

but should i just use her as practice and for sex? im 7 years older than her, she can't obviously think this would be permanent. i think she's just horny.

anyway, should i go for it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
 

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Biggie said:
So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
She went for me.

All the girls I go after are 22+.
 

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Biggie said:
So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
Total BS.
 

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Chubby = fat, thats a no.

18 yrs old = young and dumb. That could be a yes if shes hot. But considering she's not, I say no.

Bottomline I would feel disgusted after I cleaned up.

theres nothing wrong with a girl whos got T & A but if shes got a gut/fupa/gunt what have you...thats a negative right there son.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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razkay said:
She went for me.

All the girls I go after are 22+.

Ah ok. Well if she just wants to get some and you just want to get some i say go for it. Just be safe.
 

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don't buy that age shaming bullshiit. Weaksauce on who ever threw that shiit out there. I wouldn't go that low, but then I'm a grown man, I rarely date women under 27. Younger than that is just good for a shag and that's it.

I usually advocate getting a starter girl, just to get your game rolling and to practice, but if your not attracted, leave it. Go after what you want. Good luck.
 

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Biggie said:
So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
do you mean it' gross that a 25 year old is going for a 18 year old or that it's gross that she's chubby? If it's the age thing than all I have to say is that's not at all gross, it's perfectly fine (though I couldn't see a relationship like that going anywhere). Now if your talking about the fact that she's chubby, well different people have different tastes. IMO a little chubby is ok (I'm talking average here, not fat) as long as she's cute.
 

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I say go for it, just for the experience screwing a chubby girl.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Biggie said:
So you're a 25 year old going for 18 year olds? I say don't go for it. Yes it's legal but that's kinda gross.
gtfo moralfag
 

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If I do go for this, it'll be my first chubby chick. I'm thinking she's fatter than chubby though. She has those myspace pic angles. lol
 

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Meet her at a place that's easy to bail from. If you want some action, proceed, if you don't bail.

Don't listen to any one here. Only 2 questions. Is she legal, and do you want to hit it?
 

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in the words of my buddies dad: "ugly girls are just practice"
 

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How chubby?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fat Chicks are like mopeds. Everybody wants one, but you don't want your friends to see you riding it.
 

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razkay said:
Okay, this is against all my morals but this girl messages me online and we get into a conversation and she willingly gives me her number.

this isn't what i envisioned spinning plates would be. she's cute in the face, but i just don't like chubby girls.
If your going so 'low' as to consider phoning this fat chick, your not spinning plates. And your desperate. If you were spinning plates you'd have plenty of other attractive options. Ones you would want to bang.
 

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Leporello said:
How chubby?
I think she's on the verge of becoming a whale...so I'm not touching that. It was a fleeting thought.
 

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kraytkiller said:
If you were spinning plates you'd have plenty of other attractive options. Ones you would want to bang.
Hopefully I'll have several girls I can call, but right now I have zero. I'm working on this.
 
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