"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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15 phone numbers in one week...

jdawgmcb

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I think that's pretty good for someone who is only 17.

My problem is, now that i have the attraction stage built up...what should i do next?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jdawgmcb

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So how long should i wait to make a phone call and ask if they want to hang out?
 

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Normally people say wait a week, wait two days, wait this or that. I say wait however long you want and do whatever YOU want. That's the basic idea anyway. (if you want to call a certain one now, do it)
 

619joe

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Im same age as you bud so do what I do

Wait a few days,text her "you know you seem like a cool girl we should chill sometime".Its a full proof method. Dont get into the whole be alpha male and call because chicks our age dont give a damn at all. They LOVE texting 10 times more than talking on the phone (except for like their best friends possibly)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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