"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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15 phone numbers in one week...

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I think that's pretty good for someone who is only 17.

My problem is, now that i have the attraction stage built up...what should i do next?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So how long should i wait to make a phone call and ask if they want to hang out?
 
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Normally people say wait a week, wait two days, wait this or that. I say wait however long you want and do whatever YOU want. That's the basic idea anyway. (if you want to call a certain one now, do it)
 
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Im same age as you bud so do what I do

Wait a few days,text her "you know you seem like a cool girl we should chill sometime".Its a full proof method. Dont get into the whole be alpha male and call because chicks our age dont give a damn at all. They LOVE texting 10 times more than talking on the phone (except for like their best friends possibly)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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