"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Most men will donstuff like thos just for the exposure

However the msg in that can have some very bad repercussion on some men think8ng its how it should be.

Imagine a bunch of women competing to get impragnated by an alpha male, this would never float.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Seriously? It really not that hard. I've even had ladies come on to me during the crisis. Perhaps the incel virus is spreading quicker than COVID-19.
Yeah got to say i disagree on this.
I just turned 40 and thing have never been easier for me.
 

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Seriously? It really not that hard. I've even had ladies come on to me during the crisis. Perhaps the incel virus is spreading quicker than COVID-19.
Yes, seriously. Most people are having less sex than you think. These people are silent. People on this forum live for seduction and getting laid. However, participants on this forum are not a representative sample. The typical single dude isn't participating in a seduction forum and they are not expressing passion for seducing women and getting laid. The typical single and unattached dude works a BS soul killing office job around a bunch of undesirable married wenches with kids, watches porn and beats off, doesn't dedicate himself to fitness, and might be into playing video games and watching sports games. These are the betas and possibly the omegas.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What's your environment? How are you presenting yourself?
Im not a big player but i was never approach by women as much when i was younger and single.
Ofc i doing things to improve my chances.
Gym, nice clothes etc

But i think its just something everyone should do.

I know ppl that are probably still virgin at like 35, but they do nothing to look better and only want women that are clearly higher smv.
I think single women in my age group are getting desperate and thisnis why i see them approaching now.
 

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Im not a big player but i was never approach by women as much when i was younger and single.
Ofc i doing things to improve my chances.
Gym, nice clothes etc

But i think its just something everyone should do.

I know ppl that are probably still virgin at like 35, but they do nothing to look better and only want women that are clearly higher smv.
I think single women in my age group are getting desperate and thisnis why i see them approaching now.
What kind of chyt you do for fun outside women? Do you have a approachable and fun demeanor? Or are you super strict? I've had many years were I'm real good with them, having them isn't even a thought or a effort... Other years, it's been more tough.
 

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What kind of chyt you do for fun outside women? Do you have a approachable and fun demeanor? Or are you super strict? I've had many years were I'm real good with them, having them isn't even a thought or a effort... Other years, it's been more tough.
Mixe of the 2 depending on where i am, but i say that when approachable demeanor it seems to.work much better.
But im not super sucessful or anything but i dont have a hard time either.
 

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Yeah got to say i disagree on this.
I just turned 40 and thing have never been easier for me.
Disagreeing with my statement would make it seem you mean it's harder to attract ladies the prior. I am stating that it's not hard at all.
 

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Yes, seriously. Most people are having less sex than you think. These people are silent. People on this forum live for seduction and getting laid. However, participants on this forum are not a representative sample. The typical single dude isn't participating in a seduction forum and they are not expressing passion for seducing women and getting laid. The typical single and unattached dude works a BS soul killing office job around a bunch of undesirable married wenches with kids, watches porn and beats off, doesn't dedicate himself to fitness, and might be into playing video games and watching sports games. These are the betas and possibly the omegas.
Then that's their problem for allowing it to happen. Those are choices. The dudes need to make changes to better themselves for the good not stay in neutral and do nothing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You see guys repeating bullshyt like it's a shortage of women.
Well, there is a shortage of good one's. However, just to get your d!ck wet; it shouldn't be that difficult. Would it be Miss America, prob. not, but one could at least reduce their stress with a willing female helper. ;'p
 

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I think EVERY guy ever thinking of having a baby with a 40+ yo woman has to be willing to assume risks with birth defects and such. They say any female over 35 increases in chances of having various birth defect and conditions. It will also depend on her family and your family genetical history too so definitely take those into account. Also take into account her lifestyle, health, eating habits and such. You may run into fertility or baby carrying issues the older she is as well. Not only to get pregnant but to bring that baby to full term.
I can count quite a few couples that started later in life that's encountered the above situations that I knew.

Imagine 75% of your paycheck going to health related services and accomodations if your kid has a birth defect. And that's for life...
My cousin is in that exact same scenario...
 
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