You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
uh oh. i just found out from a friend of mine that the girl i hooked up at the club is 14 years older than me. good lordy. i need advice out there on how to avoid the age issue.. like what to say if she asks how old i am.. i want to brush off the question casually but at the same time not be lying to her...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What's the problem? Bang her for f*cks sake. Age means squat. Lie in the meantime until you get down her pants.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why??? If she's interested in him and he in her what's the big deal?
And if she asks just throw the question back to her. "Oh, please don't tell me you are one of those women who are hung up on age." You can even follow it up with "Do you think that a younger guy wouldn't be interested in you?"
You've just implied that you are younger without actually telling her your age. The only concern should be you being able to behave maturely as not to pose too many other questions.
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia Why??? If she's interested in him and he in her what's the big deal?
And if she asks just throw the question back to her. "Oh, please don't tell me you are one of those women who are hung up on age." You can even follow it up with "Do you think that a younger guy wouldn't be interested in you?"
You've just implied that you are younger without actually telling her your age. The only concern should be you being able to behave maturely as not to pose too many other questions.
What the hell are you talking about? RIGHT NOW SHE'S WORRIED IF YOU THINK *SHE* IS TOO OLD! Your age here isn't the issue man, it's the other way around. If she asks, just tell her how old you are straight-up. If you dodge the question or act like a smartass, all that'll show is that you're insecure about it, which you shouldn't be because its an advantage NOT a disadvantage.
Originally posted by jakeyboy uh oh. i just found out from a friend of mine that the girl i hooked up at the club is 14 years older than me. good lordy. i need advice out there on how to avoid the age issue.. like what to say if she asks how old i am.. i want to brush off the question casually but at the same time not be lying to her...
You smile and say, "Old enough to make you scream"
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
hey Crank_It_Up, that's a sweet comeback line.. i can see from the posts here that there's three groups of guys. the ones who tell me to fvck her like a *****, regardless of her age, the ones who tell me to be upfront about my age and the guys with the witty comebacks for the age question... this is good sh*t!!! very helpful information for me to make a choice on either of these three ultimatums.. thanks mates, any more advice is definitely welcome!!
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