"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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14 years older than me. HELP!!!

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uh oh. i just found out from a friend of mine that the girl i hooked up at the club is 14 years older than me. good lordy. i need advice out there on how to avoid the age issue.. like what to say if she asks how old i am.. i want to brush off the question casually but at the same time not be lying to her...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how old are you and how old is she? This will give us something to work with.

When I was 20, I dated a 34 year old for a few months.
 

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my age is up there dude... but anyways im 19 so shes 33.. watcha reckon i should do
 

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
my age is up there dude... but anyways im 19 so shes 33.. watcha reckon i should do
What's the problem? Bang her for f*cks sake. Age means squat. Lie in the meantime until you get down her pants.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why??? If she's interested in him and he in her what's the big deal?

And if she asks just throw the question back to her. "Oh, please don't tell me you are one of those women who are hung up on age." You can even follow it up with "Do you think that a younger guy wouldn't be interested in you?"

You've just implied that you are younger without actually telling her your age. The only concern should be you being able to behave maturely as not to pose too many other questions.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Why??? If she's interested in him and he in her what's the big deal?

And if she asks just throw the question back to her. "Oh, please don't tell me you are one of those women who are hung up on age." You can even follow it up with "Do you think that a younger guy wouldn't be interested in you?"

You've just implied that you are younger without actually telling her your age. The only concern should be you being able to behave maturely as not to pose too many other questions.



fantastic. exactly what i was lookin for to throw it back at her. excellent excellent. :D thanks mate!



anyone out there who wants to give some more advice or comments, i'm still open to suggestions..
 

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Dude, she knows you're young. It's what she wants.

She's just happy you're giving her attention.

fvck her like a $5 wh0re and repeat until you get bored of her.

Cheers!

Eric
 

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What the hell are you talking about? RIGHT NOW SHE'S WORRIED IF YOU THINK *SHE* IS TOO OLD! Your age here isn't the issue man, it's the other way around. If she asks, just tell her how old you are straight-up. If you dodge the question or act like a smartass, all that'll show is that you're insecure about it, which you shouldn't be because its an advantage NOT a disadvantage.
 

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
uh oh. i just found out from a friend of mine that the girl i hooked up at the club is 14 years older than me. good lordy. i need advice out there on how to avoid the age issue.. like what to say if she asks how old i am.. i want to brush off the question casually but at the same time not be lying to her...
She asks "How old are you?"

You smile and say, "Old enough to make you scream"
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hmm different standards for different people
 

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hey Crank_It_Up, that's a sweet comeback line.. i can see from the posts here that there's three groups of guys. the ones who tell me to fvck her like a *****, regardless of her age, the ones who tell me to be upfront about my age and the guys with the witty comebacks for the age question... this is good sh*t!!! very helpful information for me to make a choice on either of these three ultimatums.. thanks mates, any more advice is definitely welcome!! :D
 

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
fantastic. exactly what i was lookin for to throw it back at her. excellent excellent. :D thanks mate!

You're welcome. I know it works because I used it on my ex wife. We married when I was 19 and she was 32, ahhh memories...;)
 
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