"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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14 years older than me. HELP!!!

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uh oh. i just found out from a friend of mine that the girl i hooked up at the club is 14 years older than me. good lordy. i need advice out there on how to avoid the age issue.. like what to say if she asks how old i am.. i want to brush off the question casually but at the same time not be lying to her...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how old are you and how old is she? This will give us something to work with.

When I was 20, I dated a 34 year old for a few months.
 

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my age is up there dude... but anyways im 19 so shes 33.. watcha reckon i should do
 

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
my age is up there dude... but anyways im 19 so shes 33.. watcha reckon i should do
What's the problem? Bang her for f*cks sake. Age means squat. Lie in the meantime until you get down her pants.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why??? If she's interested in him and he in her what's the big deal?

And if she asks just throw the question back to her. "Oh, please don't tell me you are one of those women who are hung up on age." You can even follow it up with "Do you think that a younger guy wouldn't be interested in you?"

You've just implied that you are younger without actually telling her your age. The only concern should be you being able to behave maturely as not to pose too many other questions.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Why??? If she's interested in him and he in her what's the big deal?

And if she asks just throw the question back to her. "Oh, please don't tell me you are one of those women who are hung up on age." You can even follow it up with "Do you think that a younger guy wouldn't be interested in you?"

You've just implied that you are younger without actually telling her your age. The only concern should be you being able to behave maturely as not to pose too many other questions.



fantastic. exactly what i was lookin for to throw it back at her. excellent excellent. :D thanks mate!



anyone out there who wants to give some more advice or comments, i'm still open to suggestions..
 

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Dude, she knows you're young. It's what she wants.

She's just happy you're giving her attention.

fvck her like a $5 wh0re and repeat until you get bored of her.

Cheers!

Eric
 

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What the hell are you talking about? RIGHT NOW SHE'S WORRIED IF YOU THINK *SHE* IS TOO OLD! Your age here isn't the issue man, it's the other way around. If she asks, just tell her how old you are straight-up. If you dodge the question or act like a smartass, all that'll show is that you're insecure about it, which you shouldn't be because its an advantage NOT a disadvantage.
 

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
uh oh. i just found out from a friend of mine that the girl i hooked up at the club is 14 years older than me. good lordy. i need advice out there on how to avoid the age issue.. like what to say if she asks how old i am.. i want to brush off the question casually but at the same time not be lying to her...
She asks "How old are you?"

You smile and say, "Old enough to make you scream"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hmm different standards for different people
 

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hey Crank_It_Up, that's a sweet comeback line.. i can see from the posts here that there's three groups of guys. the ones who tell me to fvck her like a *****, regardless of her age, the ones who tell me to be upfront about my age and the guys with the witty comebacks for the age question... this is good sh*t!!! very helpful information for me to make a choice on either of these three ultimatums.. thanks mates, any more advice is definitely welcome!! :D
 

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
fantastic. exactly what i was lookin for to throw it back at her. excellent excellent. :D thanks mate!

You're welcome. I know it works because I used it on my ex wife. We married when I was 19 and she was 32, ahhh memories...;)
 
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