"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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12th year

Lmnr

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Although it is my final year and the girl im interested in ive known for pretty much a year she is a year behind me and ive recognized her since last year but ive been waiting for something to pop up, so far nothing in paticular anyways, although she is a year below me she is very advanced in her classes and very intellectual and tends to be about her academics although she has her social times. I joined a club last year and i later find out that shes in that club so thats how i got to notice her i have no classes with her and only times i see her is during club activities im wondering if theres any approach i can take towards getting somewhere with her at least for me im decent with girls and i can understand negative feedback and positive but shes way too advanced since shes more mature than she looks. overall i need help figuring out what to do for now im in the friend zone and ive been at it since last year i recently figured out that she dated a friend of mine that is similar to me not the brightest guy and not the dumbest but around my range so i need help figuring out the best way to approach her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ajbobtom

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Give us more detail about your relationship with her. How often do you talk to her, do you text her. Things like that, even if you think they don't matter. (I am not very good at this my self, but I'll try and help.)
 

NorwegianDJ

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Reply with a post where you approach 5 other chicks, that's gonna help you so much more. Then again, you need to go approach them.
 
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