Although it is my final year and the girl im interested in ive known for pretty much a year she is a year behind me and ive recognized her since last year but ive been waiting for something to pop up, so far nothing in paticular anyways, although she is a year below me she is very advanced in her classes and very intellectual and tends to be about her academics although she has her social times. I joined a club last year and i later find out that shes in that club so thats how i got to notice her i have no classes with her and only times i see her is during club activities im wondering if theres any approach i can take towards getting somewhere with her at least for me im decent with girls and i can understand negative feedback and positive but shes way too advanced since shes more mature than she looks. overall i need help figuring out what to do for now im in the friend zone and ive been at it since last year i recently figured out that she dated a friend of mine that is similar to me not the brightest guy and not the dumbest but around my range so i need help figuring out the best way to approach her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
12th year
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