SeymourCake
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Adonis PUA Trainer said:Not to hate on the kid, he's gonna get his money in this industry someday but he's displaying no skill besides confidence (which is great for his age) and was clearly just brought into this
Thats bull.J Roc said:His skills are his confidence and his lack of fear of rejection. those are skills many guys twice his age dont have...
Fear of rejection? For real?J Roc said:His skills are his confidence and his lack of fear of rejection. those are skills many guys twice his age dont have...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
But at the same time, if ANY DUDE goes up to a girl waiting for the bus and says, "If I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't let you take the bus" is going to be perceived as a desperate AFC. Why? Because you already mentioned the word "boyfriend" upon just meeting her. It just reeks of "loser line."Solomon said:Man there's lot of hate in this thread
The fact is this kid is doing something that 90% of this forum is afraid to do. Anyone who has done Daygame knows that it takes big balls to approach. The fact that he is 12 and his demeanor is so calm says a lot about him. I only saw him flinch/stutter once the kid is a good example for lot of us that Child like confidence can go a long way
Yes it is just Fun for him and he is practicing his game and seeing what type of responses he gets from these women. Like some of the other posters said he is doing approaches that 90% of adult men wouldnt dare do. He can run this same game on women ages 12-15 and have a very good success ratio.Pimply_Pimp said:But at the same time, if ANY DUDE goes up to a girl waiting for the bus and says, "If I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't let you take the bus" is going to be perceived as a desperate AFC. Why? Because you already mentioned the word "boyfriend" upon just meeting her. It just reeks of "loser line."
Besides, this kid had absolutely nothing to lose because he was hitting on 20-30 year old women. He already knew every single one of them would reject him. He was just having fun because he can always fall back on the "just wait 6 years ladies and I'll show you."
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pimply_Pimp said:Besides, this kid had absolutely nothing to lose because he was hitting on 20-30 year old women. He already knew every single one of them would reject him. He was just having fun because he can always fall back on the "just wait 6 years ladies and I'll show you."
But also remember, he's just throwing all his darts at the target and hoping one hits the bullseye. A true Don Juan only goes after girls he wants, he doesn't go up to every single one he sees just for the hell of it.Solomon said:The part that I highlighted is something every guy should remember, whether your 12 or 112, when you approach a woman you have nothing to lose, [URL="http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115091"]read this[/URL] that post I think does a good job of explaining that. Once you carry that mindset there is no such thing as fear of approaching women, and you realize how silly it truly is to be afraid to approach women once you have the ultimate confidence in yourself, at times though we forget cause humans are very ego invested.
Funny how you mention he got rejected, I saw him facebook and number close a couple of the chicks, including the last one with the nice bubble![]()
Pimply_Pimp said:But also remember, he's just throwing all his darts at the target and hoping one hits the bullseye. A true Don Juan only goes after girls he wants, he doesn't go up to every single one he sees just for the hell of it.
Otherwise, you're one of those guys that people say "Your only criteria is that if she has a vagina, you're in" to.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.