SeymourCake
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Adonis PUA Trainer said:Not to hate on the kid, he's gonna get his money in this industry someday but he's displaying no skill besides confidence (which is great for his age) and was clearly just brought into this
Thats bull.J Roc said:His skills are his confidence and his lack of fear of rejection. those are skills many guys twice his age dont have...
Fear of rejection? For real?J Roc said:His skills are his confidence and his lack of fear of rejection. those are skills many guys twice his age dont have...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
But at the same time, if ANY DUDE goes up to a girl waiting for the bus and says, "If I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't let you take the bus" is going to be perceived as a desperate AFC. Why? Because you already mentioned the word "boyfriend" upon just meeting her. It just reeks of "loser line."Solomon said:Man there's lot of hate in this thread
The fact is this kid is doing something that 90% of this forum is afraid to do. Anyone who has done Daygame knows that it takes big balls to approach. The fact that he is 12 and his demeanor is so calm says a lot about him. I only saw him flinch/stutter once the kid is a good example for lot of us that Child like confidence can go a long way
Yes it is just Fun for him and he is practicing his game and seeing what type of responses he gets from these women. Like some of the other posters said he is doing approaches that 90% of adult men wouldnt dare do. He can run this same game on women ages 12-15 and have a very good success ratio.Pimply_Pimp said:But at the same time, if ANY DUDE goes up to a girl waiting for the bus and says, "If I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't let you take the bus" is going to be perceived as a desperate AFC. Why? Because you already mentioned the word "boyfriend" upon just meeting her. It just reeks of "loser line."
Besides, this kid had absolutely nothing to lose because he was hitting on 20-30 year old women. He already knew every single one of them would reject him. He was just having fun because he can always fall back on the "just wait 6 years ladies and I'll show you."
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Pimply_Pimp said:Besides, this kid had absolutely nothing to lose because he was hitting on 20-30 year old women. He already knew every single one of them would reject him. He was just having fun because he can always fall back on the "just wait 6 years ladies and I'll show you."
But also remember, he's just throwing all his darts at the target and hoping one hits the bullseye. A true Don Juan only goes after girls he wants, he doesn't go up to every single one he sees just for the hell of it.Solomon said:The part that I highlighted is something every guy should remember, whether your 12 or 112, when you approach a woman you have nothing to lose, [URL="http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115091"]read this[/URL] that post I think does a good job of explaining that. Once you carry that mindset there is no such thing as fear of approaching women, and you realize how silly it truly is to be afraid to approach women once you have the ultimate confidence in yourself, at times though we forget cause humans are very ego invested.
Funny how you mention he got rejected, I saw him facebook and number close a couple of the chicks, including the last one with the nice bubble![]()
Pimply_Pimp said:But also remember, he's just throwing all his darts at the target and hoping one hits the bullseye. A true Don Juan only goes after girls he wants, he doesn't go up to every single one he sees just for the hell of it.
Otherwise, you're one of those guys that people say "Your only criteria is that if she has a vagina, you're in" to.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.