"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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10s are not the top tier of society

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If 10s were the top tier of society then it would stand to reason that both parents would have to have been 10s themselves when younger. This is rarely the case.

If a man and a woman who are both 10s in looks or 9s does not guarantee their offspring will become a 9 or a 10 in looks.

10s are dependent on being created by the average.

Also a 10 female will most likely end up with a man most resembling her father and upbringing. That does not mean her father is top tier in looks.

The myth of 10s only ending up with or only dating other 10s, man or woman, is just a myth that the insecure need to cling to.

Don't believe it? Look at the parents, grandparents, siblings, and offspring of your personal 10. Are they all 10s too? No.

In the end we all end up as a pile of bones in the dirt.

Remember that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Attractive couples usually create average to ugly kids
True. And average to ugly people can create 10s.

10s are societies minority and they don't all end up with each other. Which also proves that even 10s aren't that great as 10s in consistantly ending up with or keeping other 10s.

If 10s were perfect society would end up with everyone perfect in looks throughout their entire lives etc. Yet 10s are still a tiny minority of society which wind up losing their looks and appeal soon as time goes on, people get to know and dislike things about them and the next best thing comes along.
 

GrowingPains

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Lmao who cares..

This is such a weird point. You made an account for this? This was your big debut?
 

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I wonder what a 10 looks like.

Never did get this forum preoccupation with ratings.

Mine is pretty simple - cute, pretty, beautiful and gorgeous.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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10s are 10s because they got lucky in the gene pool lottery. I have more respect for people who have worked hard and earned a respectable place in society than I do for people who got lucky.
 

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I don't believe in 10s, but a lot of the time a woman's looks depend on what age she is.
Some women stay pretty attractive most of their lives. Some start as ugly ducklings but blossom into beauties.
And some of the very most attractive girls I have ever seen hit a peak level of beauty for a few years, and then five years later it was gone.
 

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If 10s were the top tier of society then it would stand to reason that both parents would have to have been 10s themselves when younger. This is rarely the case.

If a man and a woman who are both 10s in looks or 9s does not guarantee their offspring will become a 9 or a 10 in looks.

10s are dependent on being created by the average.

Also a 10 female will most likely end up with a man most resembling her father and upbringing. That does not mean her father is top tier in looks.

The myth of 10s only ending up with or only dating other 10s, man or woman, is just a myth that the insecure need to cling to.

Don't believe it? Look at the parents, grandparents, siblings, and offspring of your personal 10. Are they all 10s too? No.

In the end we all end up as a pile of bones in the dirt.

Remember that.

So first there is no such thing as a 10. Yes, there are features in men and women that are appealing universally to the majority of the opposite sex, but some guys like steak some guys like chicken .. Your 10 is a 6 to me, and your 6 is a 10 to me

People can’t control their attraction. You could have a girl who you consider a 10, yet 8 out of 10 girls would rate you a 7.. but to her you are a 10. Make sense? I guess I’m kind of agreeing with you in a way for this part.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I once dated a 10. Cost me a fortune but it was worth it.
 
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