"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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100+ missed phone calls

ZhaoYun

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This one girl who I'm involved with went to some party last night(she's college girl) got her freak on, had fun, etc..

I didn't have a problem with it since I went to a fight party(De La Hoya/Pacquiao.)

Called her house late last night, no answer so I hit her on the cell. Turns out she's at "her friends dad's apartment" spending the night with her girlfriends. Apparently they had drinks after the party. When I ask to come by, she refuses to let me come over claiming since it's not her place and there's no telling when her friends dad might come home. It was 3am so it's apparent he wouldn't have been coming home even if she were telling the truth.

So yeah I totally didn't buy it and went on to pretty much cut her out of my life. She had already betrayed my trust already so the decision was easy. She cried, pleaded, begged, left numerous voice mail messages the next morning and ended up calling me a total of 100+ times.(I saw 100+ missed calls message on my cell)

Anyone ever been through something like this? Why can't she just leave me the hell alone?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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ZhaoYun

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we're up to around 200+ calls now ..I'm starting to get a little freaked out. I guess whoever she fvcked last night must have sucked.

Keep in mind these calls are within 5-8 hours
 

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ZhaoYun said:
This one girl who I'm involved with went to some party last night(she's college girl) got her freak on, had fun, etc..

I didn't have a problem with it since I went to a fight party(De La Hoya/Pacquiao.)

Called her house late last night, no answer so I hit her on the cell. Turns out she's at "her friends dad's apartment" spending the night with her girlfriends. Apparently they had drinks after the party. When I ask to come by, she refuses to let me come over claiming since it's not her place and there's no telling when her friends dad might come home. It was 3am so it's apparent he wouldn't have been coming home even if she were telling the truth.

So yeah I totally didn't buy it and went on to pretty much cut her out of my life. She had already betrayed my trust already so the decision was easy. She cried, pleaded, begged, left numerous voice mail messages the next morning and ended up calling me a total of 100+ times.(I saw 100+ missed calls message on my cell)

Anyone ever been through something like this? Why can't she just leave me the hell alone?

Run the **** away!!!


When I broke up with my X she would call me anywhere from 30-70 times a day. It was nuts, It came to a point where I had to switch my number eventually and also I had my f****ing phone off for a month. Please don't do the same mistake I did, run the fucc far, far away yo!!!
 

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She definitely turned out to be psycho. After I got off work last night, her car was directly in front of mine in the parking lot. She then goes on to beg, cry , etc even more. I got fed up with it and told her to get lost.

Before I could get in my vehicle she blocks my entrance and won't allow me to close the door. She then proceeds to plead for "one more hug" but I wouldn't give it, so she basically keeps doing this for 30 mins or so and locks me out of my own vehicle while it was running.

Before all of this she called me nonstop for 6 hours!! Even when I didn't answer or hung up on her she kept calling! I had a fully charged phone and the battery went to crap since she called so much.

So I'm definitely glad to be out of this. I just hope my car doesn't end up trashed.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ZhaoYun said:
So I'm definitely glad to be out of this. I just hope my car doesn't end up trashed.

i hate to say it but it proably will after you became a little ***** and let her stop you for 30+ minutes.. as soon as she started doing that you should have called 911.. or if your battery was dead then gone back in and called

and dont be like "oh 911 is for emergencies" because that woul dhave shown her that u were serious, and yes something like that does require a quick 2 min call and an officer coming down and maybe even arresting the *****
 

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Welcome to the world of being stalked. Many of us have been there. There's the occasional woman who is just as bad, if not worse than any AFC you'll meet.

Do a search online for help on stalking. If this garbage continues, get a restraining order and get a second cell phone (keep the first one for her to call, while you use the other one for important calls.) If you get rid of the cell phone she's calling, she'll do other psycho 5hit like stake out your apartment.
 

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Well, nevermind what I said before. She's still crazy.
 
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