"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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100+ missed phone calls

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This one girl who I'm involved with went to some party last night(she's college girl) got her freak on, had fun, etc..

I didn't have a problem with it since I went to a fight party(De La Hoya/Pacquiao.)

Called her house late last night, no answer so I hit her on the cell. Turns out she's at "her friends dad's apartment" spending the night with her girlfriends. Apparently they had drinks after the party. When I ask to come by, she refuses to let me come over claiming since it's not her place and there's no telling when her friends dad might come home. It was 3am so it's apparent he wouldn't have been coming home even if she were telling the truth.

So yeah I totally didn't buy it and went on to pretty much cut her out of my life. She had already betrayed my trust already so the decision was easy. She cried, pleaded, begged, left numerous voice mail messages the next morning and ended up calling me a total of 100+ times.(I saw 100+ missed calls message on my cell)

Anyone ever been through something like this? Why can't she just leave me the hell alone?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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we're up to around 200+ calls now ..I'm starting to get a little freaked out. I guess whoever she fvcked last night must have sucked.

Keep in mind these calls are within 5-8 hours
 

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ZhaoYun said:
This one girl who I'm involved with went to some party last night(she's college girl) got her freak on, had fun, etc..

I didn't have a problem with it since I went to a fight party(De La Hoya/Pacquiao.)

Called her house late last night, no answer so I hit her on the cell. Turns out she's at "her friends dad's apartment" spending the night with her girlfriends. Apparently they had drinks after the party. When I ask to come by, she refuses to let me come over claiming since it's not her place and there's no telling when her friends dad might come home. It was 3am so it's apparent he wouldn't have been coming home even if she were telling the truth.

So yeah I totally didn't buy it and went on to pretty much cut her out of my life. She had already betrayed my trust already so the decision was easy. She cried, pleaded, begged, left numerous voice mail messages the next morning and ended up calling me a total of 100+ times.(I saw 100+ missed calls message on my cell)

Anyone ever been through something like this? Why can't she just leave me the hell alone?

Run the **** away!!!


When I broke up with my X she would call me anywhere from 30-70 times a day. It was nuts, It came to a point where I had to switch my number eventually and also I had my f****ing phone off for a month. Please don't do the same mistake I did, run the fucc far, far away yo!!!
 

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She definitely turned out to be psycho. After I got off work last night, her car was directly in front of mine in the parking lot. She then goes on to beg, cry , etc even more. I got fed up with it and told her to get lost.

Before I could get in my vehicle she blocks my entrance and won't allow me to close the door. She then proceeds to plead for "one more hug" but I wouldn't give it, so she basically keeps doing this for 30 mins or so and locks me out of my own vehicle while it was running.

Before all of this she called me nonstop for 6 hours!! Even when I didn't answer or hung up on her she kept calling! I had a fully charged phone and the battery went to crap since she called so much.

So I'm definitely glad to be out of this. I just hope my car doesn't end up trashed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ZhaoYun said:
So I'm definitely glad to be out of this. I just hope my car doesn't end up trashed.

i hate to say it but it proably will after you became a little ***** and let her stop you for 30+ minutes.. as soon as she started doing that you should have called 911.. or if your battery was dead then gone back in and called

and dont be like "oh 911 is for emergencies" because that woul dhave shown her that u were serious, and yes something like that does require a quick 2 min call and an officer coming down and maybe even arresting the *****
 

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Welcome to the world of being stalked. Many of us have been there. There's the occasional woman who is just as bad, if not worse than any AFC you'll meet.

Do a search online for help on stalking. If this garbage continues, get a restraining order and get a second cell phone (keep the first one for her to call, while you use the other one for important calls.) If you get rid of the cell phone she's calling, she'll do other psycho 5hit like stake out your apartment.
 

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Well, nevermind what I said before. She's still crazy.
 
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