"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Its funny how easy it is to be total DJ around ugly girls. Does anybody know what I'm talking about? Girls that I would have no interest in dating have seen my most DJ self, just because I am 100% relaxed around them and honestly don't care if they like me or not. My very best C&F lines have been around girls that I would never have interest in.
Its all about my comfort zone. If I have a high comfort level, I can let loose and show off. If I am at all hesitent or intimidated, I can't. That is why I am now going out of my comfort zone contstanly to train my confidence.
Cold approaches, calling girls for no particular reason at all, being very open in all conversation, etc.
Soon I will be DJ anywhere, everywhere, and all the time.
I will succeed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oh how very true this is. i notice that with girls i had developed relations with also.you are 100% with the comfort zone comment.
 
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when i used to be a super AFC, i would be afraid to talk to the "hot girls," now i approach every girl, i forget how ugly or how fine they are, don't matter, i spit the same game on the hot ones.

It was sophomore year when i realized that i got nothing to be afraid of because out of the blue i said this to a HB while she was putting make up on: (with a smirk and strong eye contact) "yea, you're gonna have to put more" ... she looked at me in shock which i found funny and laughed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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