"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its funny how easy it is to be total DJ around ugly girls. Does anybody know what I'm talking about? Girls that I would have no interest in dating have seen my most DJ self, just because I am 100% relaxed around them and honestly don't care if they like me or not. My very best C&F lines have been around girls that I would never have interest in.
Its all about my comfort zone. If I have a high comfort level, I can let loose and show off. If I am at all hesitent or intimidated, I can't. That is why I am now going out of my comfort zone contstanly to train my confidence.
Cold approaches, calling girls for no particular reason at all, being very open in all conversation, etc.
Soon I will be DJ anywhere, everywhere, and all the time.
I will succeed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oh how very true this is. i notice that with girls i had developed relations with also.you are 100% with the comfort zone comment.
 
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when i used to be a super AFC, i would be afraid to talk to the "hot girls," now i approach every girl, i forget how ugly or how fine they are, don't matter, i spit the same game on the hot ones.

It was sophomore year when i realized that i got nothing to be afraid of because out of the blue i said this to a HB while she was putting make up on: (with a smirk and strong eye contact) "yea, you're gonna have to put more" ... she looked at me in shock which i found funny and laughed.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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