"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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10 Women You Met Online Dating At 35+

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Some of these are gonna be "DUH" but these are very common from what I've seen a lot

10. Just Divorced Nancy-These are the women who just got divorced some are just looking for fun and some are looking for a rebound. Some of these women ride the Bunkerbuster carousel hard then look for a captain save a thot

9. Single Mothers-Self explanatory

8. Gold Digger Ginger- These tend to be younger women hoping that some rich simp, that will sponsor their lifestyle. Usually, they use phrases like "Looking for a guy to spoil me" or "A generous man" or they will say something in their profile stating they prefer older men who spends

7. Pass Around Haley-These are the women who have been riding the bunkerbuster carousel since their 20s, or are serial daters or got out of an LTR and now just looking to gobble up all the D they can. They tend to be good for FWB but not for relationships or LTR's

6. Awkard Bethany- She is the homely chick who is awkward, lacks social skills doesn't shave her armpits and listens to Post Malone

5. BPD Jane-These women most of us have dealt with at one point or another, it starts out well but sooner or later the crazy eventually comes out

4. Feminist Anne-Self explanatory

2. Boss Bytch Nicole-These are typically women 30 and older who think like a man, act like a man, they lead conversations with their education and accomplishments they are highly educated or decently accomplished but can't keep a relationship cause they have no feminine energy in their body and want to be looked at as equals in a relationship

1. Surburabn Katy- looking for a "PLUG N PLAY" boyfriend these are the girls that tend to be 6's-8s's go to brunch. weddings and do girls trips to Vegas or Mami They are looking for a relationship as a "flex" or a "Trophy" boyfriend aka "Plus N Play" They have been"Alpha widowed" sure they'll settle for a high earning Beta that she can "Plug" into events such as weddings, bbq's, trips to the lake. They care about their social status a lot. However, they still yearn for an Alpha to wife them up and will cheat in a heartbeat or drop their boyfriend if they feel theey have a better option

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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11.- "I had sex only once, a decade ago, but now I wanna wait until marriage to have sex" Nataly. (True story unfortunately. Most rubbish thing I´ve heard in my life. Blocked/ghosted her from everywhere. But I could see notifications on my phone that she tried calling me like 4 times. My sister has a female friend just like her and she managed to convince some beta cuck to marry her. The thirst is real)

12.- Fitness Girl Alexa - This girl is obssesed about the gym and eating clean. Im not saying its a bad thing.

13 Catfish Danna - Self explanatory

14.- Im just on swipe apps for the attention and validation Abigail - This girl is on every swipe app but would never go out IRL with anyone she met there. This is super annoying because the whole point of the swipe app is to meet IRL. These girls are probably super selfish so I guess you dodge a bullet anyway.
 
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This is a good framework. Thanks for the effort!

When using swipe apps, the most common of these descriptions I've met is "Pass Around Haley". "Pass Around Haley" is usually a never married, childless 30 something. The difference between "Pass Around Haley" and "Boss Biatch Nicole" is that "Pass Around Haley" usually doesn't have an advanced degree and is less career motivated.

"Boss Biatch Nicole" is a common one but avoidable. While I have sometimes gone on first dates with higher echelon professional women (often with advanced degrees), I've usually regretted it. "Boss Biatch Nicole" seems to be way more common on swipe apps than in daygame/nightgame.

"Suburban Katy" seems like a misnamed gal. Fewer single women live in suburbs, as they tend to live in the major city of a metro area. The "Suburban Katy" description seems accurate for a lot of late 20s/early 30s women.
 
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Solomon said:
10. Just Divorced Nancy-These are the women who just got divorced some are just looking for fun and some are looking for a rebound. Some of these women ride the Bunkerbuster carousel hard then look for a captain save a thot
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I had a few dates with childless divorced women that were arranged via online dating/swipe app. I don't think any of those dates were recent divorcees. I think on the few occasions I had those dates, the divorces were all 2+ years in the past.

Recently divorced vs. 1-2+ in the past is a different mindset.
 
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this is the only good one lol
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With the #10 Just Divorced Nancy, the key is discerning to what extent they have gotten their fill of D. The fresh ones look all excited and the semi-jaded ones look like they are going through the motions. Usually the tell is in the eyes. This also applies to a lesser extent to #7 Pass Around Haley.

@jaymbrs, does the girl from this thread https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/lacking-chemistry-w-hottie.276994/ remind you of the #1 Suburban Katy?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Confirming I have encountered all of these archetypes.

I’ve also met the This is my first online date girl somewhat frequently. I don’t know how true that is. But these chicks try to make you jump through 21 interview questions before agreeing to a date.
 
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BillyPilgrim said:
With the #10 Just Divorced Nancy, the key is discerning to what extent they have gotten their fill of D. The fresh ones look all excited and the semi-jaded ones look like they are going through the motions. Usually the tell is in the eyes. This also applies to a lesser extent to #7 Pass Around Haley.

@jaymbrs, does the girl from this thread https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/lacking-chemistry-w-hottie.276994/ remind you of the #1 Suburban Katy?
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Very much so but also transitioning to Awkward Bethany since all her baddie friends are tied down and having children.
 
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Get to know about her ex if she is past 35. If you find out he is about the same age, most likely he dumped her and chasing younger tail. These women are alpha-widowed and will only want that ex back. Very short fuse for online dating, quick to dismiss. Call these women broken, I call it experienced in catching incompatibility :)
 
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