"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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10 Traits Men Look for in a Girlfriend - msn article

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm on the fence with #2 about a woman never chases a man. I've been chased a few times, it's not bad if there's a mutual interest. Just as long as it doesn't fall into the realm of "Fatal Attraction."
 

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If I came across an HB with these traits, I would consider her marriage material. We all study what men should do or how to think. Other than the women's game of attraction, this is about relationships.

That chick Lisa Daily in which the author is referring to, knows her sh!t. She had made comments in Men's Health Magazine that simply blew me away. Here's one: "There is something very sexy about a guy who can take you or leave you". The attitude we study here. Another quote: "If you try to sneak in with a woman by being friends... you'll project that, and you'll end up as friends". By golly I think she's got it!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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