WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
I love it.
Lmao...totally guilty of learning #6 the hard way.
Lmao...totally guilty of learning #6 the hard way.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
10 Things You Should Never Say to a Woman
- Thread starter Bible_Belt
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
typical
Master Don Juan
Yep I have no clue I'm dumb you old grandads know it all thank you goodbye.KarmaSutra said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
typical said:
lol, everyone is welcome to their opinions, but that one is funny.
I have two GFs (hb 7 and 9) in a desperate competition for me, throwing sex at me at every opportunity. Twice this week alone, I fvcked both of them on the same night. I have other girls that I could call for sex, but these two are keeping me busy. And I am yet to call either one fat, or tell her that her feelings are stupid, or say anything else on that list. I posted that list because it is what works for me.
typical
Master Don Juan
Ok my bad bro , I take it all back , I still disagree with most of that list.
BTW I don't go around being a prick to the girl/s that I go out with but neither do I stroke their ego, same thing you could say just a different way thats all
, I still disagree with most of that list.BTW I don't go around being a prick to the girl/s that I go out with but neither do I stroke their ego, same thing you could say just a different way thats all
MotownMack
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It's not that it's necessarily bad advice, it's just that it's more "relationship" type advice for guys who've had a girl friend for a while. And not exactly what most of the dudes on this site are seeking at the moment.
What I reject about it-and it has nothing to do with being macho-is that it looks like one of those little links I see on yahoos homepage when I am having my morning coffee, written some mid to late 20-something female doing free lance writers work- who is telling guys how girls like to be treated. And we all know how utterly useless this information usually is, or we wouldn't be here.
The fact is that these intellectual commentaries often have very little do with what actually attracts or retains women on an emotional level, and have more to do with brain washing the average male into thinking it's up to him to always change his behavior and his hang-ups in order to supplicate the woman's neurosis. Add to that fact, you rarely see these links that educate the girls on what guys look for or want. It's as if we're all supposed to bow subjugate ourselves if we want to spend some time with a quality woman, and the fact is, you don't really have to do this.
That *might* even be fine if what they were telling you was what they actually wanted. But in a lot of cases, it's not.
What I reject about it-and it has nothing to do with being macho-is that it looks like one of those little links I see on yahoos homepage when I am having my morning coffee, written some mid to late 20-something female doing free lance writers work- who is telling guys how girls like to be treated. And we all know how utterly useless this information usually is, or we wouldn't be here.
The fact is that these intellectual commentaries often have very little do with what actually attracts or retains women on an emotional level, and have more to do with brain washing the average male into thinking it's up to him to always change his behavior and his hang-ups in order to supplicate the woman's neurosis. Add to that fact, you rarely see these links that educate the girls on what guys look for or want. It's as if we're all supposed to bow subjugate ourselves if we want to spend some time with a quality woman, and the fact is, you don't really have to do this.
That *might* even be fine if what they were telling you was what they actually wanted. But in a lot of cases, it's not.
I was just in a six year relationship until about a year and half ago, and I am 36- grand dad, I think was referred to as, lol. Fine by me-I am now dating girls as young as 19, with the average age being around 26. What I can tell you is that I now have money, status, and education, which makes this game a lot easier. But thank god there are at least some cats out here questioning this kind of stuff, but when I first started to date (especially the hotter ones), I had AFC written all over me and was making mistakes left and right. So, again-not saying this is bad relationship advice-but after learning some of the DJ stuff through Strauss, Mystery, DeAngelo, and yes-even the much maligned Jeffries- you can bet I will always question and/or scrutinized dating and relationship advice that comes from a girl who thinks she knows women want from talking to her girlfriends.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LoneSilver
Master Don Juan
Good list BB.
LoneSilver
LoneSilver
Nice post. I'm gonna have to add one from personal experience today...
Don't ever tell her you might get bored with the relationship...even if you say you can do things to spice it up. If things get boring just spice them up if you want to stay with her. If you saying something about being bored she's gonna have that fear (which wouldn't be a problem if it causes her to act and work for your interest instead of throwing it in your face every five minutes.
Don't ever tell her you might get bored with the relationship...even if you say you can do things to spice it up. If things get boring just spice them up if you want to stay with her. If you saying something about being bored she's gonna have that fear (which wouldn't be a problem if it causes her to act and work for your interest instead of throwing it in your face every five minutes.