WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
I love it.
Lmao...totally guilty of learning #6 the hard way.
Lmao...totally guilty of learning #6 the hard way.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
10 Things You Should Never Say to a Woman
- Thread starter Bible_Belt
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
typical
Master Don Juan
Yep I have no clue I'm dumb you old grandads know it all thank you goodbye.KarmaSutra said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
typical said:
lol, everyone is welcome to their opinions, but that one is funny.
I have two GFs (hb 7 and 9) in a desperate competition for me, throwing sex at me at every opportunity. Twice this week alone, I fvcked both of them on the same night. I have other girls that I could call for sex, but these two are keeping me busy. And I am yet to call either one fat, or tell her that her feelings are stupid, or say anything else on that list. I posted that list because it is what works for me.
typical
Master Don Juan
Ok my bad bro , I take it all back , I still disagree with most of that list.
BTW I don't go around being a prick to the girl/s that I go out with but neither do I stroke their ego, same thing you could say just a different way thats all
, I still disagree with most of that list.BTW I don't go around being a prick to the girl/s that I go out with but neither do I stroke their ego, same thing you could say just a different way thats all
MotownMack
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It's not that it's necessarily bad advice, it's just that it's more "relationship" type advice for guys who've had a girl friend for a while. And not exactly what most of the dudes on this site are seeking at the moment.
What I reject about it-and it has nothing to do with being macho-is that it looks like one of those little links I see on yahoos homepage when I am having my morning coffee, written some mid to late 20-something female doing free lance writers work- who is telling guys how girls like to be treated. And we all know how utterly useless this information usually is, or we wouldn't be here.
The fact is that these intellectual commentaries often have very little do with what actually attracts or retains women on an emotional level, and have more to do with brain washing the average male into thinking it's up to him to always change his behavior and his hang-ups in order to supplicate the woman's neurosis. Add to that fact, you rarely see these links that educate the girls on what guys look for or want. It's as if we're all supposed to bow subjugate ourselves if we want to spend some time with a quality woman, and the fact is, you don't really have to do this.
That *might* even be fine if what they were telling you was what they actually wanted. But in a lot of cases, it's not.
What I reject about it-and it has nothing to do with being macho-is that it looks like one of those little links I see on yahoos homepage when I am having my morning coffee, written some mid to late 20-something female doing free lance writers work- who is telling guys how girls like to be treated. And we all know how utterly useless this information usually is, or we wouldn't be here.
The fact is that these intellectual commentaries often have very little do with what actually attracts or retains women on an emotional level, and have more to do with brain washing the average male into thinking it's up to him to always change his behavior and his hang-ups in order to supplicate the woman's neurosis. Add to that fact, you rarely see these links that educate the girls on what guys look for or want. It's as if we're all supposed to bow subjugate ourselves if we want to spend some time with a quality woman, and the fact is, you don't really have to do this.
That *might* even be fine if what they were telling you was what they actually wanted. But in a lot of cases, it's not.
I was just in a six year relationship until about a year and half ago, and I am 36- grand dad, I think was referred to as, lol. Fine by me-I am now dating girls as young as 19, with the average age being around 26. What I can tell you is that I now have money, status, and education, which makes this game a lot easier. But thank god there are at least some cats out here questioning this kind of stuff, but when I first started to date (especially the hotter ones), I had AFC written all over me and was making mistakes left and right. So, again-not saying this is bad relationship advice-but after learning some of the DJ stuff through Strauss, Mystery, DeAngelo, and yes-even the much maligned Jeffries- you can bet I will always question and/or scrutinized dating and relationship advice that comes from a girl who thinks she knows women want from talking to her girlfriends.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LoneSilver
Master Don Juan
Good list BB.
LoneSilver
LoneSilver
Nice post. I'm gonna have to add one from personal experience today...
Don't ever tell her you might get bored with the relationship...even if you say you can do things to spice it up. If things get boring just spice them up if you want to stay with her. If you saying something about being bored she's gonna have that fear (which wouldn't be a problem if it causes her to act and work for your interest instead of throwing it in your face every five minutes.
Don't ever tell her you might get bored with the relationship...even if you say you can do things to spice it up. If things get boring just spice them up if you want to stay with her. If you saying something about being bored she's gonna have that fear (which wouldn't be a problem if it causes her to act and work for your interest instead of throwing it in your face every five minutes.