"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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10 signs you're a social media attention wh0re.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Great links. Looking into red flags/signs of an attention wh0re on social media has always been an interest of mine. Those articles did a nice job discussing everything.

One they should have mentioned was a female posting about how "sad" she is trying to get people to bombard them with comments. Earlier I saw one of the most phony narcissistic women I know posting how "sad" she was about something, she had around 10 or so friends reach out to her with lengthy responses trying to help, she ignored every comment, and proceeded to make more posts about being "sad." It really shows how much the people mean to her.
 

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Zapp Brannigan said:
Great links. Looking into red flags/signs of an attention wh0re on social media has always been an interest of mine. Those articles did a nice job discussing everything.

One they should have mentioned was posting how "sad" they are to get people to bombard them with comments. Earlier I saw one of the most phony narcissistic women I know posting how "sad" she was about something, she had around 10 or so friends reach out to her with lengthy responses trying to help, she ignored every comment, and proceeded to make more posts about being "sad." It really shows how much the people mean to her.
In a way social media is an excellent tool for exposing covert narcissists and attention seekers that may not show those signs in everyday life. The more selfies, fake "caring" posts/links to serve their own need for attention and ego patting on the back as well as the other attention wh0ring signs the better for grounded people to get a clue about them due to social media allowing them to expose what they really are to everyone.

I've long ago deleted flakebook. Boring as hell and everyone was trying to either one up each other with nonsense and or "prove" what a great "special little snow flake" they were. At first it's hilarious. Then pathetic. Then boring and time to pull the plug on it for good.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zapp Brannigan said:
One they should have mentioned was a female posting about how "sad" she is trying to get people to bombard them with comments. Earlier I saw one of the most phony narcissistic women I know posting how "sad" she was about something, she had around 10 or so friends reach out to her with lengthy responses trying to help, she ignored every comment, and proceeded to make more posts about being "sad." It really shows how much the people mean to her.
I remember pickup artist Arash (on youtube) saying how he picked up some women like that. He'd go on Facebook and post the exact opposite to what everyone else is - 20 beta guys posting how beautiful she is, telling her that "yes you're absolute right" and then something about her being worthless in a half subtle way to take away her validation, then message her and ask her out.
 

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10. You have a \|/
9. You have a left ( . )
8. You have a right ( . )
7. You don't have a 8====)
6. You have 6 lips instead of 2
5. You pee sitting down most of the time
4. You bleed for 5 days and don't die
3. You have 8 holes instead of 7
2. You have two personalities; "fake" and "b|tchy"
1. You are not both deaf and blind (you could be one but not both)
 

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This all could have been condensed into one sign,

1. You post any kind of update about your life on social media one or more times per day.
 

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Zapp Brannigan said:
Great links. Looking into red flags/signs of an attention wh0re on social media has always been an interest of mine. Those articles did a nice job discussing everything.

One they should have mentioned was a female posting about how "sad" she is trying to get people to bombard them with comments. Earlier I saw one of the most phony narcissistic women I know posting how "sad" she was about something, she had around 10 or so friends reach out to her with lengthy responses trying to help, she ignored every comment, and proceeded to make more posts about being "sad." It really shows how much the people mean to her.

I've seen that! The fuq is wrong with them???
 

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VladPatton said:
I've seen that! The fuq is wrong with them???
The friends don't see the girl for what she is. They believe her phony mask thinking she's a nice sincere person, when really she's a phony narcissist who doesn't care about anyone else, even the people closest to her.

Here's a good example of how fvcked in the head she is. The other day I was at the place she works at and over the span of two hours she changed her clothes three times. She went from a t-shirt, to a dress, to ANOTHER t-shirt, and she kept doing crazy s**t to her hair to make it look drastically different each time. It must have bothered her not many men were around, and no one was flocking to her. Out of curiousity I got on her Instagram that night, and guess what? She posted two bathroom mirror selfies. So it's like if she doesn't get any validation from men during the day, she'll get online after work to receive it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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