"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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10,000 hours=master

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In a couple different places they find it usually takes about 10,00"hours to master something and i feel like the same might apply to women so if you did 10,000 cold approaches you would reach a certain level of game but i figure most of of ss and guys in general just want a lil cooch and wouldnt dedicate that much effort into it thats why most guys arent good but thats just my thoughts
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How about putting in 10k hours into something you may be good at instead? e.i. getting into peak shake, getting awesome skills to get a great job, in the sport of some sort, etc. I suppose it's a better investment for yourself to pay off in the long run.
 

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Im not saying to really put 10,000 hours into females unless thats your life passion Im just saying the more hours you put in the better you will be ppl just expect to have all the answers overnight with no practice
 

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The “numbers game” fallacy is similar to the “hours game” fallacy. Think of a great musician. He has to put in a lot of hours of practice to get great at his craft. Once greatness is achieved, a person asserting an “hours game” argument would contend that the musician’s continued greatness depends on all the hours he puts into playing. But that is not the case. A great musician, once trained, can play five minutes a week and still be great compared to the non-musician or hobbyist musician.

So it is with game and pickup. Logically and unavoidably, most neophytes will make more approaches in order to put their game theory to practice in the field. That is how you get good. Simply reading about game and approaching one woman per year won’t cut it. But once a number of up-front approaches have been made — once the steepest part of the learning curve has been crested — and the aspiring seducer has improved his game acumen, then he can reduce his number of approaches while still enjoying a very good sex and love life because his odds of any one approach resulting in a fvck close have measurably increased over his previous, game-less baseline.

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/04/13/the-numbers-game-fallacy/​
The 10,000 Hour Rule is true but, luckily for us, seduction is learned quicker. And yes, the more experience you have, the better.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Social Leper I agree that there are more useful ways to spend your 10,000 hours but this is a forum about women...not cancer.

It applies to what ever you are trying to master. And I'm not saying you can't get good before then but for total mastery it takes a lot of practice
 

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A great musician, once trained, can play five minutes a week and still be great compared to the non-musician or hobbyist musician.
FWCK that! Professional pianists don't train 8 hours a day just for fun.

I agree with the rest of his post and the overall message though.
 

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he didn't SAY that they could perform at the highest levels, dude. Learn how to read, ok? What he DID say that such people could practice a few minutes and remain better than typical non-pros. He's correct, too.
 

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twentee said:
he didn't SAY that they could perform at the highest levels, dude. Learn how to read, ok? What he DID say that such people could practice a few minutes and remain better than typical non-pros. He's correct, too.
twentee i'll trade you a ******* for some reading lessons ;)
 

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sageproduct said:
twentee i'll trade you a ******* for some reading lessons ;)
no no no he wants a guide on how you're going to help him clear 100K a year by bringing in a russian mailorder bride but then ship her to china so goundra can lose his v card.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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