In a couple different places they find it usually takes about 10,00"hours to master something and i feel like the same might apply to women so if you did 10,000 cold approaches you would reach a certain level of game but i figure most of of ss and guys in general just want a lil cooch and wouldnt dedicate that much effort into it thats why most guys arent good but thats just my thoughts
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
10,000 hours=master
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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How about putting in 10k hours into something you may be good at instead? e.i. getting into peak shake, getting awesome skills to get a great job, in the sport of some sort, etc. I suppose it's a better investment for yourself to pay off in the long run.
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I mean you could. But you want to sarge for 10k hours? That's 40 hours per week for 5 years.
Plus you'd be deaf from all the loud clubs.
Plus you'd be deaf from all the loud clubs.
The “numbers game” fallacy is similar to the “hours game” fallacy. Think of a great musician. He has to put in a lot of hours of practice to get great at his craft. Once greatness is achieved, a person asserting an “hours game” argument would contend that the musician’s continued greatness depends on all the hours he puts into playing. But that is not the case. A great musician, once trained, can play five minutes a week and still be great compared to the non-musician or hobbyist musician.
So it is with game and pickup. Logically and unavoidably, most neophytes will make more approaches in order to put their game theory to practice in the field. That is how you get good. Simply reading about game and approaching one woman per year won’t cut it. But once a number of up-front approaches have been made — once the steepest part of the learning curve has been crested — and the aspiring seducer has improved his game acumen, then he can reduce his number of approaches while still enjoying a very good sex and love life because his odds of any one approach resulting in a fvck close have measurably increased over his previous, game-less baseline.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/04/13/the-numbers-game-fallacy/
The 10,000 Hour Rule is true but, luckily for us, seduction is learned quicker. And yes, the more experience you have, the better.So it is with game and pickup. Logically and unavoidably, most neophytes will make more approaches in order to put their game theory to practice in the field. That is how you get good. Simply reading about game and approaching one woman per year won’t cut it. But once a number of up-front approaches have been made — once the steepest part of the learning curve has been crested — and the aspiring seducer has improved his game acumen, then he can reduce his number of approaches while still enjoying a very good sex and love life because his odds of any one approach resulting in a fvck close have measurably increased over his previous, game-less baseline.
http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/04/13/the-numbers-game-fallacy/
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Social Leper I agree that there are more useful ways to spend your 10,000 hours but this is a forum about women...not cancer.
It applies to what ever you are trying to master. And I'm not saying you can't get good before then but for total mastery it takes a lot of practice
It applies to what ever you are trying to master. And I'm not saying you can't get good before then but for total mastery it takes a lot of practice
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FWCK that! Professional pianists don't train 8 hours a day just for fun.
I agree with the rest of his post and the overall message though.
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twentee i'll trade you a ******* for some reading lessonstwentee said:
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no no no he wants a guide on how you're going to help him clear 100K a year by bringing in a russian mailorder bride but then ship her to china so goundra can lose his v card.sageproduct said:twentee i'll trade you a ******* for some reading lessons
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.