"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
10,000 Approach Challenge
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It's going good. I just had a threesome. They both wanted it so bad I had to do one with my **** and the other with a five iron. But I guess that's all in the life of a Jesus Christ Artist.(JCA)Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Hey Chrisman - hows it going buddy
Sarge On...
It sure doesn't! In fact, when you change your frame to be about having fun and seeing if you can make a girl smile or laugh the pressures of sarging melt away! I went out last night and probably made 10 sets laugh and # closed three girls whom I wanted to hang out with. I even built up the IL so high in a few sets that they FOLLOWED me all night long and whenever they'd find me i'd be with another set and they'd stand off to the side. When you can really connect with people beyond the ****tail bullsh!t convos they go "Wow! WTF is this guy he seriously has my head spinning and thinking about him a ton."Shezz said:
I hit it off with this one blonde so well that when other guys approached her, she'd be looking around for me I caught her doing it several times. It was fun and keep it up!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.