"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
10,000 Approach Challenge
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's going good. I just had a threesome. They both wanted it so bad I had to do one with my **** and the other with a five iron. But I guess that's all in the life of a Jesus Christ Artist.(JCA)Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Hey Chrisman - hows it going buddy
Sarge On...
It sure doesn't! In fact, when you change your frame to be about having fun and seeing if you can make a girl smile or laugh the pressures of sarging melt away! I went out last night and probably made 10 sets laugh and # closed three girls whom I wanted to hang out with. I even built up the IL so high in a few sets that they FOLLOWED me all night long and whenever they'd find me i'd be with another set and they'd stand off to the side. When you can really connect with people beyond the ****tail bullsh!t convos they go "Wow! WTF is this guy he seriously has my head spinning and thinking about him a ton."Shezz said:
I hit it off with this one blonde so well that when other guys approached her, she'd be looking around for me I caught her doing it several times. It was fun and keep it up!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.