"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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1 Strike Rule must be used if you feel it !Use gut instinct..

teakroy

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I will use it when i will feel this.

Anyway another strange ***** .

Ok i shaved myself and i add a girl on my Yahoo not far away from me .Around 3 km.

I open my webcam and give to her. And i asked How about today to see each other ? She say No i am busy this day.

And i say. Ok .
The other night she enter for the first time and when i wanted to write her she leave from onlin e like a *****.Maybe this time was the moment to walk away.

But.. I enter yahoo and leave her a message to enter yahoo to read me..

Ok.. She enter ..


We only talk for 2 times..But i want to be fast.. Speed is essence..

And whatever i give her web and asked what i say on top and she say she is busy..Ok and i asked ..How about save your number ?

And she go offline ..And when i check Ignore.. She leave forever.Next i block her facebook and her id as well to give a taste of same medicine.

Ok i make a picture with me how i was dress on webcam..

Her profile www.facebook.com/Lore.micutsa

And me when i give her webcam http://postimage.org/image/ikoiar0p9/

I say wtf !Anyoane if i am ugly please say !

Ignore without say a word...

So if i was using my intuition .

So when the first she flaked ... I must walk away..But i ignored and this is what i get..

So from now on i use 1 strike rule.. I know that is to bad ..But..

Screw online webcams !

My advice is to use gut instinct for the first time..And if if the girl flakes walk from the first time..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who Dares Win

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Not to disagree with what you said but smiling and looking friendly helps more than looking thug and anxious to close...actually the female gender have a word for such attitude and behaviour, which Im sure you know.

Regarding the first strike rule, I think it can be too hard but save you most of the hussle althought its not the best choice if you are trying to close.

I mean if your priority is save time and energy while not giving girls any ego boost at your expense then yeah go one strike but if your priority is getting some girl despite wasted time and mind fvck, the 2 strikes rule fit most.
I completely disagree about the 3 strikes rule which is out of place nowadays.

Going back to your case, if I were you I would have taken distance from her when she said the first time she was busy, a good benchmark of her interest level is too if she counteroffer in case or meeting denied and if she opens to you again without being asked.

You just pushed too much and that turned her off.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Not to disagree with what you said but smiling and looking friendly helps more than looking thug and anxious to close...actually the female gender have a word for such attitude and behaviour, which Im sure you know.

Regarding the first strike rule, I think it can be too hard but save you most of the hussle althought its not the best choice if you are trying to close.

I mean if your priority is save time and energy while not giving girls any ego boost at your expense then yeah go one strike but if your priority is getting some girl despite wasted time and mind fvck, the 2 strikes rule fit most.
I completely disagree about the 3 strikes rule which is out of place nowadays.

Going back to your case, if I were you I would have taken distance from her when she said the first time she was busy, a good benchmark of her interest level is too if she counteroffer in case or meeting denied and if she opens to you again without being asked.

You just pushed too much and that turned her off.
She update her facebook with a new relationship status.

So i guess is was not my fault.

I guess my mistake is that i give webcam before i check the interest of her.

So i guess. We must dont give not even a picture before we check what she wants. Same in reality..

If you invest for the first time the girl see you like the fool.
 

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teakroy said:
She update her facebook with a new relationship status.

So i guess is was not my fault.

I guess my mistake is that i give webcam before i check the interest of her.

So i guess. We must dont give not even a picture before we check what she wants. Same in reality..

If you invest for the first time the girl see you like the fool.
Probably is like you say but I wouldnt be surprised if she update that status just to get rid of someone attention or avoid pissing off that someone making him think it was personal.

Anyway you surely know better than us since its your case and you much more info.
 

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Not for nothing, but that sounds really creepy bro..
just randomly grunge to web chat with some chick...

Kinda makes u look desperate, IMHO
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marmel75 said:
Not for nothing, but that sounds really creepy bro..
just randomly grunge to web chat with some chick...

Kinda makes u look desperate, IMHO
Yes i know .I throwed myself in the mouth of the wolf .

Anyway ! I found another girl.. And she has a very high interest mode for me..

So one door closes another open !:up:

Some girl don't know never what they are losing and if they loose something.:down:
 

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you aint ugly man imo just workout hard and look like a boss without the shirt.
 
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