"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JDTHADJ

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I don't know what it is...I just don't...why would a girl rather text you than call you..but 85% of the time you call tthey answer..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why is this eating away at the very core of your Soul like this?

Clearly this is incredibly super critically important, and MUST have an answer.

And once you've found the miraculous answer from the Heavens , you will have ALL your problems soved about women and everything forever!

Or not...
Or maybe it's just that you don't seem to have anything better to do than waste time on something so insignificant and inconsequential??


Way too many men WASTE PRECIOUS TIME AND ENERGY pondering things that are of no consequence, JD.
Please reconsider the time , energy, and effort you are putting into 'figuring this out'.
IT DOESN'T MATTER.

IT.
DOES.
NOT.
MATTER.


IF...
...you have a great, fulfilling life, in which you are consumed by your passions, pursuits,and interests.

If she calls you , fine.
IF she doesn't , thats OK. Dont worry about it.
If she texts, fine.
If she calls, fine.

It's not a big deal.
If you want her to call and not text, then ask her to.
"Hey, I'd really like you to call me and speak to me rather than you texting me. That'd be great."

Is this a deal breaker for you?
How she handles this should be observed very very carefully by you.
And how you handle this should be taken into account as well.
ie Is she your exclusive GF, an FB, or some girl from class that you sometimes 'hang out' with?

Dont expect high class, considerate behavior from people who have NO emotional investment in you.

And stop wasting precious time and energy trying to FIGURE out every damn little interaction you have with a female.
It's an OCD trait. Stop trying to 'figure out' females, and figure out WHO you ARE, and WHAT YOU WANT, and HOW you're going to GET IT.
 

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actually its not...but thanx 4 the advice anyways
 
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