"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't know what it is...I just don't...why would a girl rather text you than call you..but 85% of the time you call tthey answer..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why is this eating away at the very core of your Soul like this?

Clearly this is incredibly super critically important, and MUST have an answer.

And once you've found the miraculous answer from the Heavens , you will have ALL your problems soved about women and everything forever!

Or not...
Or maybe it's just that you don't seem to have anything better to do than waste time on something so insignificant and inconsequential??


Way too many men WASTE PRECIOUS TIME AND ENERGY pondering things that are of no consequence, JD.
Please reconsider the time , energy, and effort you are putting into 'figuring this out'.
IT DOESN'T MATTER.

IT.
DOES.
NOT.
MATTER.


IF...
...you have a great, fulfilling life, in which you are consumed by your passions, pursuits,and interests.

If she calls you , fine.
IF she doesn't , thats OK. Dont worry about it.
If she texts, fine.
If she calls, fine.

It's not a big deal.
If you want her to call and not text, then ask her to.
"Hey, I'd really like you to call me and speak to me rather than you texting me. That'd be great."

Is this a deal breaker for you?
How she handles this should be observed very very carefully by you.
And how you handle this should be taken into account as well.
ie Is she your exclusive GF, an FB, or some girl from class that you sometimes 'hang out' with?

Dont expect high class, considerate behavior from people who have NO emotional investment in you.

And stop wasting precious time and energy trying to FIGURE out every damn little interaction you have with a female.
It's an OCD trait. Stop trying to 'figure out' females, and figure out WHO you ARE, and WHAT YOU WANT, and HOW you're going to GET IT.
 

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actually its not...but thanx 4 the advice anyways
 
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