"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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made it to 1 month with my girlfriend.

whats some good ideas of a small gift i could give her? something unique...
but not overly expensive..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ya, aint give the bi*ch nothing or they'll disrespect ya
 
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I dont know i think she would appreciate something small. Something just to show her that you like her and are happy with how the first month went. Knowing what to get her now thats a different story. Its something that you would have to pick up on that she likes.
 
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If you're happy with her and it seems so :) Then I belive you sould buy her a little something ( $5 ) , nothing much, just to show that you remember the moment you seal the deal ;)

Sometimes there is a confussion when the two become a couple. I belive the beginning is on the day of the first kiss. ;)

take care!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Something to take notice is just because you buy a girl a gift or do something nice for her doesnt make you AFC. You do it out of respect for her, and kindness just because you feel she has earned it. If things are going really good in a relationship, there should be no reason why doing some like that would make you seem desparate. If anything, thinking that shell disrespect you, or youll lose her because you do something nice for her shows you have no confidence in yourself as part of the relationship. No confidence will surely make you lose a woman.
 
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One thing I always like to do with the girls I'm with is give them a mix tape. Go through the inventory of songs on your computer and pick the ones that most remind you of her, burn it, put a little design on it or something and label it, then give it to her. It's that easy.

I've done this with the past few girls I've been with and they've absolutely loved it.

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Dude, don't listen to guys that say "NOTHING" to appear "MANLY" that is pathetic. Just don't go overbored..small and simple. A simple hidden note with c+f will help. Or maybe something like walking to some park and then pick out a flower that you saw earlier in the day/or days ahead and give it to her. Stuff like that melts girls dude, trust me.
 
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You'll freak her out if you go overboard, best thing...do something nice, maybe even really nice...and then towards the end, casually mention that it's been a month since you've been out, that'll make her go ga-ga...if you give her a gift just for it, it might come off a bit odd.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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give her a three some. That would show how innovative and spontaneous you are :) All bi*chese love it.
 
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